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I don't understand kissing

I'm 18, never had a kiss.
I don't know how bc everyone says its natural but then how can you be a bad kisser if its natural? Thats what stresses me out. If its supposed to be natural, then why do people say that your first kiss might be awkward/not the best?

If anyone could give me kissing tips, i would be grateful. Do you just kiss on the lips repeatedly for the first kiss? Then what do u do with the tongue? I understand this is a very weird thing to put on TSR but i don't know who else i would talk to this abt.
Original post by Anonymous #1
I'm 18, never had a kiss.
I don't know how bc everyone says its natural but then how can you be a bad kisser if its natural? Thats what stresses me out. If its supposed to be natural, then why do people say that your first kiss might be awkward/not the best?
If anyone could give me kissing tips, i would be grateful. Do you just kiss on the lips repeatedly for the first kiss? Then what do u do with the tongue? I understand this is a very weird thing to put on TSR but i don't know who else i would talk to this abt.

First of all , Are you a dude or a girl ? If you’re a girl it could be more easier for you
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Original post by OluwaLynx
First of all , Are you a dude or a girl ? If you’re a girl it could be more easier for you
i'm a girl....
Original post by Anonymous #1
i'm a girl....

It’ll be advisable to kiss someone who likes you back cus first kiss leaves memories
Original post by Anonymous
I'm 18, never had a kiss.
I don't know how bc everyone says its natural but then how can you be a bad kisser if its natural? Thats what stresses me out. If its supposed to be natural, then why do people say that your first kiss might be awkward/not the best?
If anyone could give me kissing tips, i would be grateful. Do you just kiss on the lips repeatedly for the first kiss? Then what do u do with the tongue? I understand this is a very weird thing to put on TSR but i don't know who else i would talk to this abt.

ME TOO GIRL never ended up making out with my ex cuz i was just like idk what i'm doing
okay as someone whos been called "the best kiss of their lives" from all 3 of my exes, i have some tips yeah! honestly my fave thing to do w my bf is kiss and this is bc yeah we're pretty good. it feels super natural when it's with someone you're matched to. my first makeout session was terrible - i was drunk lol. a truly good first kiss starts off awkward. just lean in, press your lips to theirs, and put their bottom lip between your lips. start opening your mouth a bit, sucking on their bottom lip, use your tongue and put it in their mouth, just like you're opening and closing your mouths together using tongue liberally. a kiss isn't just lips and tongue however - use your hands! on their face, neck, waist, whatever you do hold them. maybe let them pin you against something. but i promise kissing will get better the more you do it. just lean in and let your mouth do the rest, it gets natural after a bit. switch up your kissing from proper making out, tons of tongue, to little soft closed-mouth kisses, neck kisses, whatever strikes your fancy. just keep it dynamic, switch positions, seriously trust the process! if you need any more advice just reply and ask, hope this helped:smile:
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Original post by Anonymous
okay as someone whos been called "the best kiss of their lives" from all 3 of my exes, i have some tips yeah! honestly my fave thing to do w my bf is kiss and this is bc yeah we're pretty good. it feels super natural when it's with someone you're matched to. my first makeout session was terrible - i was drunk lol. a truly good first kiss starts off awkward. just lean in, press your lips to theirs, and put their bottom lip between your lips. start opening your mouth a bit, sucking on their bottom lip, use your tongue and put it in their mouth, just like you're opening and closing your mouths together using tongue liberally. a kiss isn't just lips and tongue however - use your hands! on their face, neck, waist, whatever you do hold them. maybe let them pin you against something. but i promise kissing will get better the more you do it. just lean in and let your mouth do the rest, it gets natural after a bit. switch up your kissing from proper making out, tons of tongue, to little soft closed-mouth kisses, neck kisses, whatever strikes your fancy. just keep it dynamic, switch positions, seriously trust the process! if you need any more advice just reply and ask, hope this helped:smile:
finally some good advice tsym!
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It’s intuitive and better than anticipated. All you really need is someone you fancy and it’ll go fine
Original post by Anonymous
finally some good advice tsym!

you're welcome glad it helped!
I totally regret my first kiss, make sure it’s with someone you actually have a relationship with 😵*💫 secondly just go with the flow. It will be awkward and your heart might be beating way to fast but if you actually like the person. Your body will react in sync with theirs, so just be calm and don’t be afraid to get creative 😂
Original post by Anonymous #1
I'm 18, never had a kiss.
I don't know how bc everyone says its natural but then how can you be a bad kisser if its natural? Thats what stresses me out. If its supposed to be natural, then why do people say that your first kiss might be awkward/not the best?
If anyone could give me kissing tips, i would be grateful. Do you just kiss on the lips repeatedly for the first kiss? Then what do u do with the tongue? I understand this is a very weird thing to put on TSR but i don't know who else i would talk to this abt.


as everyone else has said make sure it’s with someone you do like because it’s much more enjoyable and exciting. let it happen naturally don’t force it and literally just go with their flow, as you’re a girl the guy should lead you so it’s fine. it’s not supposed to be amazing the first time just have fun with it!! overtime you’ll get the hang of it, don’t stress you’ll be okay!

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