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Virgin first time using dildo.

Hey , I'm not sure if I should be asking this here but . I'm a virgin , I have never inserted a dildo in my vagina ever . But I can fit two fingers in . Recently I bought a dildo . I am unable to insert it in even a bit . It hurts like hell and I thought I'm going to enjoy it .After forcing it in a lot it went I think about 1 cm deep and it got stuck . Like I feel like I'm hitting some bone there . It's so confusing 😭. And after that I have been bleeding from time to time . Is it normal ? Like I know you could bleed when you lose virginity or when you Insert a foreign object . But it's hurts like hell and it keeps bleeding m what do it do ? Keep trying till it's all in?
Original post by Lillyana
Hey , I'm not sure if I should be asking this here but . I'm a virgin , I have never inserted a dildo in my vagina ever . But I can fit two fingers in . Recently I bought a dildo . I am unable to insert it in even a bit . It hurts like hell and I thought I'm going to enjoy it .After forcing it in a lot it went I think about 1 cm deep and it got stuck . Like I feel like I'm hitting some bone there . It's so confusing 😭. And after that I have been bleeding from time to time . Is it normal ? Like I know you could bleed when you lose virginity or when you Insert a foreign object . But it's hurts like hell and it keeps bleeding m what do it do ? Keep trying till it's all in?

How big is the dildo in terms of its width or circumference?
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Original post by Lillyana
Hey , I'm not sure if I should be asking this here but . I'm a virgin , I have never inserted a dildo in my vagina ever . But I can fit two fingers in . Recently I bought a dildo . I am unable to insert it in even a bit . It hurts like hell and I thought I'm going to enjoy it .After forcing it in a lot it went I think about 1 cm deep and it got stuck . Like I feel like I'm hitting some bone there . It's so confusing 😭. And after that I have been bleeding from time to time . Is it normal ? Like I know you could bleed when you lose virginity or when you Insert a foreign object . But it's hurts like hell and it keeps bleeding m what do it do ? Keep trying till it's all in?
Following, as I am a virgin and can only comfortably fit 1 finger. Hearing and thinking about his size compared to one finger when I try to fit 2 fingers comfortably sounds like it's going to hurt like hell. Especially when I see all these articles saying it doesn't hurt that bad. Unless I am just really tight down there.
Reply 3
Original post by ageshallnot
How big is the dildo in terms of its width or circumference?

Idk how to tell how big it is . 4cm I think .
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Original post by Anonymous
Following, as I am a virgin and can only comfortably fit 1 finger. Hearing and thinking about his size compared to one finger when I try to fit 2 fingers comfortably sounds like it's going to hurt like hell. Especially when I see all these articles saying it doesn't hurt that bad. Unless I am just really tight down there.

I'm really scared to the time I'll have sex . I can fit two fingers but that hurts too and I tried inserting this dildo and man that hurt and I bled . How do people have sex for the first time . It must hurt as hell😭😭💀
Reply 5
Original post by ageshallnot
How big is the dildo in terms of its width or circumference?

I think 4 cm
Original post by Lillyana
I think 4 cm

Try a smaller one? It can be a gradual process, you don't have to jump from 1 finger to something penis-sized in one go.
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Original post by Lillyana
I'm really scared to the time I'll have sex . I can fit two fingers but that hurts too and I tried inserting this dildo and man that hurt and I bled . How do people have sex for the first time . It must hurt as hell😭😭💀
Ditto
Based on posts I've read on here made by men...well let's just say they are hoping there are lots of women like you.

I've known a few women with similar anatomy. They have all worked it out over time, on their own or with some kind and gentle help. I'm no doctor, though, so it's worth a consult with your care provider. In the meantime, be gentle with yourself and do what feels good. Start small!
Reply 9
Girls, lube lube lube 🙂

Do you get wet enough naturally before you start? Try massaging your clit first before any insertion. You wouldn't let a guy stick his **** in without foreplay and using a dildo is no different.

If your dildo is on the larger size.... go buy some lube. You may think your wet enough to try it but if it's big it wants well lubed up..... trust me...
Original post by Ella Q
Girls, lube lube lube 🙂
Do you get wet enough naturally before you start? Try massaging your clit first before any insertion. You wouldn't let a guy stick his **** in without foreplay and using a dildo is no different.
If your dildo is on the larger size.... go buy some lube. You may think your wet enough to try it but if it's big it wants well lubed up..... trust me...

You're new to TSR, and every single post you've made so far has been on vibrators, dildos, etc.
To the point where you've now resurrected an 8 month old thread just so you can write yet another tip on how to use a dildo.

Are you even a student? Why are you here exactly?

Whilst there are sometimes posts of a sexual nature in the relationships and sexual health sections of TSR, making ONLY comments on threads about dildos and vibrators seems extraordinarily weird, as that sort of thing certainly isn't the point of this place.
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Original post by PinkMobilePhone
You're new to TSR, and every single post you've made so far has been on vibrators, dildos, etc.
To the point where you've now resurrected an 8 month old thread just so you can write yet another tip on how to use a dildo.
Are you even a student? Why are you here exactly?
Whilst there are sometimes posts of a sexual nature in the relationships and sexual health sections of TSR, making ONLY comments on threads about dildos and vibrators seems extraordinarily weird, as that sort of thing certainly isn't the point of this place.

very sorry that I have discussed what I know with the hopes of helping someone else out....

I simply answered a few questions......

We all were young and curious at certain times in our life's, and quite frankly when I answered a new question it was because it came up as a suggested post at the bottom of the current one.

I will refrain from offending you now.
Original post by Ella Q
very sorry that I have discussed what I know with the hopes of helping someone else out....
I simply answered a few questions......
We all were young and curious at certain times in our life's, and quite frankly when I answered a new question it was because it came up as a suggested post at the bottom of the current one.
I will refrain from offending you now.

The related discussions at the bottom of the page are sometimes many months or even years old. It's not a good idea to bump up old threads by commenting on them though.

As for being offended, there is very little that offends me, I just found it very strange that this is apparently the sole reason for you being on TSR. You're also verging on breaking community guidelines - for some reason it's not letting me post a screenshot, however:

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Original post by PinkMobilePhone
The related discussions at the bottom of the page are sometimes many months or even years old. It's not a good idea to bump up old threads by commenting on them though.
As for being offended, there is very little that offends me, I just found it very strange that this is apparently the sole reason for you being on TSR. You're also verging on breaking community guidelines - for some reason it's not letting me post a screenshot, however:
2. Make sure the content you add is appropriate for all users

Do not link to material on site that could incite discrimination or hateful behaviour towards marginalised groups.

Please also avoid posting in languages other than English unless you also provide a translation (aside from in the Foreign Languages forums or the International Lounge).

The Student Room does not allow content that is gratuitously shocking, graphic, sadistic, or gruesome or that promotes, normalises, or glorifies extreme violence or suffering on our site. When there is a threat to public safety, we will suspend or ban the account and, if necessary, we will report it to relevant legal authorities.

Do not post anything that advocates illegal activity.

Do not post about or link to any sexually explicit content on The Student Room, this includes sexually explicit images or text. It’s fine to discuss sex on The Student Room - but please remember this isn't the place for sex chat or tips and this content will be removed. If necessary content that breaks the law will be reported to the relevant authorities.

You should not write anything which could prejudice pending or on-going court proceedings of which you are aware. For example, if you have any personal knowledge about someone who has been arrested or charged or being prosecuted for an offence, you must not mention it. If you do, you could be in contempt of court, which is an extremely serious matter.


Right..... il consider my hand slapped then🙂

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