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Why girls never say Hi first to a boy even she like him?

Please answer it respectfully.
Reply 1
Original post by ImKasper
Please answer it respectfully.

bro you said answer respectfully... I have one answer 'gym'
you need to go gym and stop being a geek asking these questions, get strong make money and make your parents rich too....
Reply 2
Original post by FAZE_KAYE
bro you said answer respectfully... I have one answer 'gym'
you need to go gym and stop being a geek asking these questions, get strong make money and make your parents rich too....

Mate I am asking it out of curiosity. Thanks
Reply 3
Original post by ImKasper
Mate I am asking it out of curiosity. Thanks

Bro why be curious of things you don’t need to know. THIS ISNT GOING TO BETTER YOUR LIFE! CHASE MONEY
GIRLS WILL SWARM TO you. IM Talking from experience
Reply 4
Mate no offense. If you don't have any answer please no need to reply. It's an open platform to ask question and I am asking what I want to know. Thanks
Reply 5
Fear of rejection + societal expectations of the man to initiate. Obviously, assuming she actually does fancy you a bit.

Some women will initiate, albeit in the minority.
Reply 6
No that is normal my friend, that is something most girls won't do. They will give you a sign or two that they like you and then they expect you to ask them on a date, or get talking, or ask them if they want to hang out, or just for a coffee or to see a movie or whatever. It is partly because girls are often naturally unconfident and shy, but also it is because they expect you to step up and show them you think they are worth it and for to show some courage. Often you will ask them on a date and they will say no first. They do this to see your reaction. If you just laugh it off and say no problem like it's a breeze and nothing at all they will come back to you at a later stage expecting you to ask them out again, they will then say yes. They do that to test you and see if you are easy going and cool and can handle them. This is valuable advice I have learned from dating to be honest, nobody told me this.
Reply 7
Original post by Anonymous
No that is normal my friend, that is something most girls won't do. They will give you a sign or two that they like you and then they expect you to ask them on a date, or get talking, or ask them if they want to hang out, or just for a coffee or to see a movie or whatever. It is partly because girls are often naturally unconfident and shy, but also it is because they expect you to step up and show them you think they are worth it and for to show some courage. Often you will ask them on a date and they will say no first. They do this to see your reaction. If you just laugh it off and say no problem like it's a breeze and nothing at all they will come back to you at a later stage expecting you to ask them out again, they will then say yes. They do that to test you and see if you are easy going and cool and can handle them. This is valuable advice I have learned from dating to be honest, nobody told me this.
"Often you will ask them on a date and they will say no first. They do this to see your reaction. If you just laugh it off and say no problem like it's a breeze and nothing at all they will come back to you at a later stage expecting you to ask them out again, they will then say yes. They do that to test you and see if you are easy going and cool and can handle them."

Please do not harass anyone. This is terrible advice. No means no.

If somebody doesn't want to drink the tea, don't force them to drink the tea!
Reply 8
Original post by faze_kaye
bro why be curious of things you don’t need to know. This isnt going to better your life! Chase money
girls will swarm to you. Im talking from experience

craaaazy response
Reply 9
Original post by Anon2463
Fear of rejection + societal expectations of the man to initiate. Obviously, assuming she actually does fancy you a bit.
Some women will initiate, albeit in the minority.

Thank you so much.
Reply 10
Original post by Anonymous
No that is normal my friend, that is something most girls won't do. They will give you a sign or two that they like you and then they expect you to ask them on a date, or get talking, or ask them if they want to hang out, or just for a coffee or to see a movie or whatever. It is partly because girls are often naturally unconfident and shy, but also it is because they expect you to step up and show them you think they are worth it and for to show some courage. Often you will ask them on a date and they will say no first. They do this to see your reaction. If you just laugh it off and say no problem like it's a breeze and nothing at all they will come back to you at a later stage expecting you to ask them out again, they will then say yes. They do that to test you and see if you are easy going and cool and can handle them. This is valuable advice I have learned from dating to be honest, nobody told me this.

Thank you so much. Although, it's quite complicated for me to understand but I appreciate what you said.
Reply 11
Original post by Anon2463
"Often you will ask them on a date and they will say no first. They do this to see your reaction. If you just laugh it off and say no problem like it's a breeze and nothing at all they will come back to you at a later stage expecting you to ask them out again, they will then say yes. They do that to test you and see if you are easy going and cool and can handle them."
Please do not harass anyone. This is terrible advice. No means no.
If somebody doesn't want to drink the tea, don't force them to drink the tea!

I can understand. Any time of harassment is not acceptable. It's true girls are complicated to understand🤣
Reply 12
I am a shy girl, still many times I am the first to say hi.
Reply 13
Original post by Kathy89
I am a shy girl, still many times I am the first to say hi.

Thanks. I appreciate.😊
(edited 10 months ago)
Reply 14
this is really normal ,when your crush is in front of you ,girls have a wild reaction obvs they cant show it in their face .Might be fear of rejection ,embarrassment or just the fact that she's really nervous and shy because of her feelings for you.some girls dont do it because they do not want to look like their clingy or that they care too much.I'm pretty sure shes just really nervous she's probably fighting w herself inside as she would think of all options
Reply 15
Original post by lakshanaa_28
this is really normal ,when your crush is in front of you ,girls have a wild reaction obvs they cant show it in their face .Might be fear of rejection ,embarrassment or just the fact that she's really nervous and shy because of her feelings for you.some girls dont do it because they do not want to look like their clingy or that they care too much.I'm pretty sure shes just really nervous she's probably fighting w herself inside as she would think of all options

Thanks for your reply. I will put this in my research.
nothing new at all here

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