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Questions for the honest men real answers-anyone and all answering appreciated!

Here's a list instead of several different questions:
#1) How many of guys end up having sex with their first couple of girlfriends?
#2) How many guys admire, like, or would actually wait until marriage to have sex due to her morals?
#3) How many guys (are honest and brave/"man" enough) to actually say if they are either haven't had sex yet, are waiting for "the one", or haven't had a girlfriend yet by the time they were 28?
#4) How many of you actually wash your hands after peeing (or💩?)
#5) What is your take/opinion on if a guy who has had girlfriends before asks a girl, "Would you like trying to be my girlfriend?" (Do some guys ask this way?)
#6) How many of you initiate cuddles, hand holding, or hugging? (Do you ask her or just start the action and drop physical hints and see if she picks up and also wants to do so), do you wait for her to ask, or don't like that stuff and just tolerate it for her?
#7) How long do you usually date until getting sexually intimate and what's your approach to her about it or do you wait for her to ask? (What's your response if she brings it up first?)

Your opinion and comments are appreciated, please and thank you! Doing research on male relationship and mind and opinions and statistics. Feel free to be anonymous, I know some of those were personal and intimate.

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Original post by Anonymous
Here's a list instead of several different questions:
#1) How many of guys end up having sex with their first couple of girlfriends?
#2) How many guys admire, like, or would actually wait until marriage to have sex due to her morals?
#3) How many guys (are honest and brave/"man" enough) to actually say if they are either haven't had sex yet, are waiting for "the one", or haven't had a girlfriend yet by the time they were 28?
#4) How many of you actually wash your hands after peeing (or💩?)
#5) What is your take/opinion on if a guy who has had girlfriends before asks a girl, "Would you like trying to be my girlfriend?" (Do some guys ask this way?)
#6) How many of you initiate cuddles, hand holding, or hugging? (Do you ask her or just start the action and drop physical hints and see if she picks up and also wants to do so), do you wait for her to ask, or don't like that stuff and just tolerate it for her?
#7) How long do you usually date until getting sexually intimate and what's your approach to her about it or do you wait for her to ask? (What's your response if she brings it up first?)
Your opinion and comments are appreciated, please and thank you! Doing research on male relationship and mind and opinions and statistics. Feel free to be anonymous, I know some of those were personal and intimate.

1) Don't know, ask the ONS.
2) Wouldn't be opposed to waiting for the right person. Though i think perfection is the enemy of good, in this case. Don't ruin something good for a "what if" in future.
3) If I was a virgin at 28, I would tell the person I was dating. No point lying as most will be able to tell intuitively if/when they get intimate.
4) Eh, sometimes. If i get pee on my hand, always, yes. If I've woken up in the middle of the night to take a quick wazz, absolutely not, no.
5) Some women like to be asked, even after exclusively dating. I have personally never been too bothered but quickly realised my GF wanted to be asked. I wouldn't think anything of a guy asking someone that. Though I'd never use the words "to try". Seems a bit effeminate to me.
6) Occationally. Usually always cuddling when in bed; watching a film, etc. I enjoy it but she's usually always initiating as I'm not too bothered. Wouldn't really call that "action" though.
7) This ones a good question. I waited a couple months. I initiated about a month in (of exclusively dating, not first date), at which point she told me about her bad experiences in the past, at which point I said I was more than happy to wait till she was comfortable and told her the onus would now fall on her to initiate - which she did - couple months in.

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P.S.

Didnt see the poo emoji on No.4 . Always after a poo.

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Original post by Anon2463
P.S.
Didnt see the poo emoji on No.4 . Always after a poo.

Thanks for the honesty and detail.

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