Friends

Im a 20 year old black girl living in spain. im tall and i can say im pretty. but compared to every other girls who live here, i dont have any friends. anyone i have always try to control me and treat me like a kid all because im super playful. and im sick of it. or other reasons is that they just ghost me like they dont wanna be my friend anymore and i always understand the clue at the end. when i try to enter a friend circle, everyone ignore me like i shouldnt talk to them. like why is everyone like this to me?

Reply 1

varsh_xx

Original post by ebel4u

i'm sorry this is happening to you! i've been through similar situations too

maybe you could try to hold back your playful personality the first few interactions with a new friend circle, until you feel comfortable with them and slowly let yourself be yourself with them when you feel like it. it takes time and a lot of failed attempts to find your people, so don't give up and also continue to focus on yourself <3
are you studying at a university? if you are, maybe try to join a club and make friends through the experience of learning something new!

Reply 2

ebel4u

Original post by varsh_xx

i'm sorry this is happening to you! i've been through similar situations too
maybe you could try to hold back your playful personality the first few interactions with a new friend circle, until you feel comfortable with them and slowly let yourself be yourself with them when you feel like it. it takes time and a lot of failed attempts to find your people, so don't give up and also continue to focus on yourself <3
are you studying at a university? if you are, maybe try to join a club and make friends through the experience of learning something new!