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am I being sensitive?

I’ve just cried today because it has gathered up for a while now, i mean I cry all the time. But my sisters basically moved out and whenever she comes around and I try to speak to her my dad thinks I’m saying something bad to her and as a ‘joke’ he says be quiet but to me it’s like I’m 23 years old I know my dad always says be quiet then everyone but he keeps saying it over my sister? Okay if there’s favouritism in the family then don’t make me feel like **** I’m fine with my dad caring for her but don’t tell me to shutup it’s getting so annoying I cried to my mum I said over nothing he says be quiet. Me and my dad had a great bond but now he’s just all about my sister and leaves me out. Tbh idc in a few years I’ll move out then they will know. I don’t want to be a bad daughter as we’re all close but idk anymore it’s just annoying

Reply 1

ur not being sensitive. im so sorry

Reply 2

Original post by Anonymous
ur not being sensitive. im so sorry

my sister is telling me I’m taking it to deep and that I’m childish

Reply 3

Original post by Anonymous
my sister is telling me I’m taking it to deep and that I’m childish

i promise ur not. i dont know if its good advice but i would try to distance myself. i wouldnt be rude because then everyone would have something to say but i would be really dry. soon people woild realise u've kinda changed and appreciate u more

Reply 4

Original post by Anonymous
i promise ur not. i dont know if its good advice but i would try to distance myself. i wouldnt be rude because then everyone would have something to say but i would be really dry. soon people woild realise u've kinda changed and appreciate u more

yeah that’s true, I kinda have changed and distanced myself because I’ve had enough every time my sister comes over my dad just takes her side when I don’t even talk. My dad always gives her the most attention and love. I get it I’m still at home I’ve not moved out but that doesn’t mean I shouldn’t get love. Me and my dad were so close at one point and now I don’t know anymore. It’s sad because I want things to be the same again but I can’t force my dad to start loving me the way he loves my sister

Reply 5

Original post by Anonymous
I’ve just cried today because it has gathered up for a while now, i mean I cry all the time. But my sisters basically moved out and whenever she comes around and I try to speak to her my dad thinks I’m saying something bad to her and as a ‘joke’ he says be quiet but to me it’s like I’m 23 years old I know my dad always says be quiet then everyone but he keeps saying it over my sister? Okay if there’s favouritism in the family then don’t make me feel like **** I’m fine with my dad caring for her but don’t tell me to shutup it’s getting so annoying I cried to my mum I said over nothing he says be quiet. Me and my dad had a great bond but now he’s just all about my sister and leaves me out. Tbh idc in a few years I’ll move out then they will know. I don’t want to be a bad daughter as we’re all close but idk anymore it’s just annoying

Have you ever talk to your dad how you feel?

Maybe having a chat might help

Reply 6

No you're not being sensitive. It's not nice to tell someone to be quiet all the time. I definitely think you should tell him about it.

Reply 7

Original post by CharlotteLexi
Have you ever talk to your dad how you feel?
Maybe having a chat might help

Not really no because I just feel anxious to speak about it incase I get shouted or what not idk

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