Ok, so I’m talking with a guy for a few months and I am thinking about asking him on a date. My friends have told me “he is the guy, he should ask” but honestly I feel like maybe I should at this point as I have come to stay with my parents for a week, I am closer to him now so I should make the move and ask him out before I go.
Well, I’ve been a little scared to ask him out this whole week and now it’s Friday, so I can only do the weekend before I go. I don’t know if it’s too late to ask.
Also when I comes to relationship progression, well I like him a lot, and won’t mind potentially dating him if we click etc. but I don’t know how he feels, we will be doing a lot of long distance on and off for at least the next 2.5 years (assuming something comes out of this, I’m fine with it as I think it’ll allow me to focus), and he said he wants to do a bunch of things for himself so can’t have any distractions (this comment was referred to not having social media) but I can’t help to think if distractions also mean dating. As before I met him I had this little rule called “a few years no distractions” which basically meant don’t date for a few years and purely focus on my studies and career, well I was doing that and met him 😂 now for him I’m fine with those plans being ruined. I just don’t know if he is on the same boat.
I have been told that since we have been talking for a long time as there is no label so i should leave. I see no reason to leave as things are going pretty slow and there is consistent communication. And we haven’t met as we are long distance a majority of the time (and broke). So I don’t mind that we don’t have a label, although we both have admitted to liking each other and are constantly flirting.