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Trying to get this girl

Recently started university and long behold i met this girl who i might add puts a smile on my face just talking to her. Anyways, we went out a couple times, but there doesnt seem to be anything showing that shes interested. Well, the problem is that i seem to be lured into buying her stuff... i dunno if i have crossed the border between simple gift to being a credit card...:frown: the last thing i want is for her to like me for my money. What should i do?

Reply 1

Stop buying her worthless **** and tell her you like her?

Reply 2

Don't buy her stuff then she won't take it for granted.

Reply 3

Don't buy her anything then, don't offer then see if she asks if she does shes not worth it.
Just tell her you like her.

Reply 4

Obviously stop buying her stuff, and tell her you like her.

Reply 5

yeah, dont become her credit card, become her boyfriend. there is a difference. plus, not buying her stuff show's your not a pushover= big attraction plus.


Good luck!

Reply 6

She take my money, well I'm in need
Yeah she's a triflin' friend indeed
Oh she's a gold digger way over time
That digs on me

Reply 7

stop buying her stuff full stop?

Reply 8

thx for the advice. BTW, i have made it very clear that i like her.

Reply 9

^ ^ If you've made it VERY clear and she still isn't showing signs of interest, then it sounds to me like she's just taking advantage and using you to buy her stuff ... could you not ask her if she likes you in the same way?