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I end up messing everything everytime. No matter how much I try I always end up submitting ECs for my assessments bcx something just happens. I feel like a joke for all my professors atm tbh. Even the easiest assessments get messed up. I just feel like I have destroyed my future

Reply 1

student295-6

Original post by Anonymous

Hey, hope you’re alright. I just thought I’d let you know you are not a joke to ur professors and you haven’t destroyed ur future. You have lots of time left to improve and change your current situation so don’t worry. What course do you do and what year uni are u in (if u don’t mind me asking)?
If u do see this, I hope u don’t think you’re alone and i hope ur able to turn this around and do well! xx

Reply 2

Chester Student

Official Rep

Original post by Anonymous

Hi there,

I'm sorry to hear you are feeling this way. University isn't always a breeze, and many people feel this way, get behind, and don't end up doing as well as they want to, which can be really overwhelming. Just know that you aren't a joke to your professors, you haven't destroyed your future. You've already identified a problem and reached out, which is really hard to do.

Something for you to consider would be what the actual problem is that is causing you to keep submitting ECs. Is it motivation? Are you not passionate about your course? Health related? Is it home/university life? It is important for you to find out what is impacting your studies so you can then go on to address it.

I'd also recommend talking to your university health and wellbeing services, even if you can solve the problem yourself. They are there to support you, and you also have academic services to help you with any assignments. Make the most of these services, as they are often really lovely, non-judgemental people who are committed to helping you succeed.

I hope this helps, and best of luck getting back on track,

Isabella
Third-year Geography with a Year Abroad Student

Reply 3

LSBU Student Rep

Hi there,

I am sorry to hear that you’re feeling this way.

It’s important to remember that our worth is not determined by our academic performance. So make sure to consider the following factors.

Remember that everyone makes mistakes and it’s a part of being human. So be kind to yourself and recognize that setbacks don’t define your entire future.

Reach out to your professors or academic advisors as they can provide guidance, encouragement and share practical solutions. Additionally, consider talking to a counselor or mental health professional who can help you manage stress and your anxiety.

Lastly, university is just one chapter in your life and it doesn’t determine everything. Skills, resilience as well as adaptability, matter more than any single grade.

You are not alone in feeling this way. So make sure to seek support, learn from your experience and keep a positive mindset.

I hope I managed to help!

Best of luck,
Melanie
LSBU Rep

Reply 4

Anonymous #2

I am in a similar situation. Just know you're not the only one : )

I am neurodiverse and those related things have affected me quite a bit this year, I guess I have just found it hard to understand myself and how to play to my strengths, when the typical strategies don't work. I messed up last semester badly and may be resitting exams in the summer, whilst finishing a project which was originally due several months ago. I thought this semester would be so much better and it started off great, but then I fell into the same habits again and couldn't motivate myself. It's hard because I know I am capable of doing well and I actually enjoy my degree (despite the large amount of content...). Now, I have a big project due by the end of the month that I have hardly started and then two exams next month and I am behind on both of the modules.
I am hoping to do a year abroad starting in Sept. and I have wanted to do this for quite a few years now, but I need 60% overall this year 😕 I don't want this semester to go badly too and end up having loads to do over the summer and then not being prepared for my year abroad as I am already nervous about it.

Sorry about the rant, I got a bit carried away, I just wonder whether you feel similar in any way. Please don't give up just yet, there is still some time left, and even if things don't go to plan, you still have so many opportunities.

Reply 5

Anonymous #2

Original post by Anonymous

I am in a similar situation. Just know you're not the only one : )
I am neurodiverse and those related things have affected me quite a bit this year, I guess I have just found it hard to understand myself and how to play to my strengths, when the typical strategies don't work. I messed up last semester badly and may be resitting exams in the summer, whilst finishing a project which was originally due several months ago. I thought this semester would be so much better and it started off great, but then I fell into the same habits again and couldn't motivate myself. It's hard because I know I am capable of doing well and I actually enjoy my degree (despite the large amount of content...). Now, I have a big project due by the end of the month that I have hardly started and then two exams next month and I am behind on both of the modules.
I am hoping to do a year abroad starting in Sept. and I have wanted to do this for quite a few years now, but I need 60% overall this year 😕 I don't want this semester to go badly too and end up having loads to do over the summer and then not being prepared for my year abroad as I am already nervous about it.
Sorry about the rant, I got a bit carried away, I just wonder whether you feel similar in any way. Please don't give up just yet, there is still some time left, and even if things don't go to plan, you still have so many opportunities.

Just to add, I spoke to the student services in my department and they were able to talk everything through with me and tell me what options I had for each assessment. You could get in touch with the coordinator of your cohort in your department and express your concerns, a lot of people end up in situations like this, so I'm sure they'd understand. You wouldn't be on your course if you didn't have the abilities. Also, if you can contact the module coordinators (or equivalent) for the modules you are particularly worried about, you never know, they may be able to help you more than you thought.

Reply 6

hallamstudents

Official Rep

Original post by Anonymous

Hi there,

I'm really sorry to hear you have been feeling like this, it sounds like you have been having a tough time.

My recommendation would be to speak to people at uni about this. If you have a personal tutor or academic advisor, email them and see if you can schedule a meeting to talk to them about this. You could talk to them about how you feel and that you are struggling with assignments and getting them in on time and see if they have any ideas on how to help you with this. They may be able to help you put a plan in place so that you feel more prepared and less stressed about assignments.

I would also recommend speaking to your module tutors or even course leader to explain that you have been struggling with the assignments and see if they can help talk you through them or give you some pointers to where you have been going wrong. Most tutors will be happy to help, even if it is just over email so it is worth a try, the worst they can say is no!

I would also suggest you try and get in contact with your university wellbeing team. They can often help you when you are struggling and feeling stressed so it is worth contacting them, again to see if they can offer you any guidance and advice or even just offering a bit of support so you don't feel alone.

it's also worth talking to friends and family about how you feel as often the people you know best are good at helping you to manage how you are feeling! They may be able to help you pinpoint why you feel you are falling behind and needing to submit ECs and help you come up with a plan to overcome this.

I hope some of this helps and things improve for you soon,

Lucy -SHU student ambassador.