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Adult virgin

will being an adult virgin make dating harder for me?
in 2 months I will turn 18 and become an adult virgin
Reply 1
Original post by wanga_wanga
depends, do you wish to stay one?
if you're female and believe tik tok gurus you'll be an oil barren princess

im a male

i dont want to stay one and im concerned it will impact my dating since women are shallow and dont like inexperienced men, ive also never dated
Original post by Detrace
im a male
i dont want to stay one and im concerned it will impact my dating since women are shallow and dont like inexperienced men, ive also never dated

May I ask a challenging question, but in good faith?
Nothing miraculously changes overnight when you turn 18, the right people won’t care about it.

It may be more important for you to change your attitude towards women.
(edited 1 month ago)
Original post by Detrace
women are shallow and dont like inexperienced men


Holding these sorts of views is far more likely to impact your dating life than being a virgin.
Original post by Crazy Jamie
Holding these sorts of views is far more likely to impact your dating life than being a virgin.


Exactly
Reply 6
Original post by wanga_wanga
May I ask a challenging question, but in good faith?

what
Reply 7
Original post by Crazy Jamie
Holding these sorts of views is far more likely to impact your dating life than being a virgin.

cope, doesnt matter what views i have. i still cant get women
Original post by Detrace
cope, doesnt matter what views i have. i still cant get women

Your views absolutely matter, because they directly impact how you treat and react to women, which in turn very much affects whether or not they will want to be intimate with you. Something which you’ll come to realise, hopefully sooner rather than later.
Original post by Detrace
cope, doesnt matter what views i have. i still cant get women

cope!! cope he says. to women, complaining about not being able to get women. Tremendous
Original post by Detrace
im a male
i dont want to stay one and im concerned it will impact my dating since women are shallow and dont like inexperienced men, ive also never dated

you seem shallow here lol
Reply 11
Original post by Anonymous
you seem shallow here lol

how ******
Original post by Detrace
will being an adult virgin make dating harder for me?
in 2 months I will turn 18 and become an adult virgin
right i'm experiencing deja vu for the weirdest reason because i swear i've seen this post with the replies long ago but whatever ima reply.
No it wont. Women who get put off because ur a virgin are not the one and are only into you bc they want s*x/wanna use you. Anyone who likes you for you, won't care how experienced you are bc its an intimate act that you should enjoy together. There are women out there you do not care if the man isn't experienced and some women prefer it.
Reply 13
Have no fear, there are lots of 18 year old virgins. Also virginity is not something you have to reveal at up front and by the time someone’s asking they’re quite probably up for it with you
Original post by Detrace
cope, doesnt matter what views i have. i still cant get women

cope.

its doesnt matter what views I have...I still cant get women.

I think you might be mistaken
Original post by Detrace
will being an adult virgin make dating harder for me?
in 2 months I will turn 18 and become an adult virgin

i'm 18 and never had sex
I honestly don’t understand why people think being a virgin is unattractive. I wish my boyfriend was a virgin cause it makes me so uncomfortable thinking about him doing stuff with other girls 😭😭 like being a virgin is so good in my opinion. U don’t have that baggage of having past girls which most girls I know prefer anyway
Original post by Anonymous
I honestly don’t understand why people think being a virgin is unattractive. I wish my boyfriend was a virgin cause it makes me so uncomfortable thinking about him doing stuff with other girls 😭😭 like being a virgin is so good in my opinion. U don’t have that baggage of having past girls which most girls I know prefer anyway

I dont think that was the point, but you do make a good one, this is usually engendered and unilateral.

I think the OPs attitude towards women is likely to be the biggest barrier.

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