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Brother creeps me out, any suggestions ?

I live with my adult brother at home who has mental illnesses, he never had a gf, no friends, no life, watches gore, rots at home, since last year i've been noticing him staring at my butt at the slightest opportunity, once i was having lunch in the kitchen and he was there staring at me openly, when i looked at him he kept going for seconds then went away, another time i heard him watching porn, he's addicted to that.

I also noticed bad behavior when he talks to any women, he kinda rude and arrogant, which i think its because he never had one in his life.

Our relationship is bad, we never agreed on anything, we are literally polar opposite when it comes to interest and personalities, he's hostile and evil, im joyful and fun or at least that's what i believe!

He hates me so much, and in return i hate him back (nobody a saint!), although i rightfully hate him for being an absolute jerk and an incel, I'm actually concerned about his life, it seems like he's going nowhere :'(
have you spoken to your parents about this? i'd recommend going to them first, and keep yourself busy! go out with your friends, or with yourself, if he makes you this uncomfortable then try to avoid him as much as possible.
Original post by Not_My_Fault
I live with my adult brother at home who has mental illnesses, he never had a gf, no friends, no life, watches gore, rots at home, since last year i've been noticing him staring at my butt at the slightest opportunity, once i was having lunch in the kitchen and he was there staring at me openly, when i looked at him he kept going for seconds then went away, another time i heard him watching porn, he's addicted to that.
I also noticed bad behavior when he talks to any women, he kinda rude and arrogant, which i think its because he never had one in his life.
Our relationship is bad, we never agreed on anything, we are literally polar opposite when it comes to interest and personalities, he's hostile and evil, im joyful and fun or at least that's what i believe!
He hates me so much, and in return i hate him back (nobody a saint!), although i rightfully hate him for being an absolute jerk and an incel, I'm actually concerned about his life, it seems like he's going nowhere :'(

I agree with the suggestion above - go talk about this with your parents first.
I would say maybe have a chat with him and when you get the opportunity - question him about his lifestyle and goals in his life. You could always take him out to have lunch or go on jogs together!
I hope everything goes well to you and your brother, I wish you both all the best. :biggrin:

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