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İs being virgin at 17 is a turnoff for women?

Hello, i am about the graduate at highschool, i had friend group but i never had a girlfriend or romantic interest, i focused on myself and my studies in hg but in these times it makes me worried that what if i end up alone ever, and i heard that being virgin and inexperinced at dating is a turnoff, is there something wrong with me? İf so, what can i do?

Reply 1

Hey!

I am a female myself and honestly I would not care. You focusing on yourself and studies is already something positive as it shows you have positive habits and routine as well as personal growth. There are also so many things you can do with your significant other, other than being intimate so don't think too deep onto that. I am also a virgin myself so no, there's nothing wrong with that! As long as you feel happy and healthy in what you're doing, that is what matters. Also whoever says it is a turnoff needs to quiet down and focus on themselves more. I'd rather have to wait a couple of years to be intimate with someone who loves me and I love them then someone who does not. If you want to improve on things though i'd honestly say surround yourself with good friends that help you grow and strive for better. Go out and try new things and continue being yourself.
Butterflies are attracted to beautiful gardens and flowers for a reason :wink:

Reply 2

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by Anonymous
Hey!
I am a female myself and honestly I would not care. You focusing on yourself and studies is already something positive as it shows you have positive habits and routine as well as personal growth. There are also so many things you can do with your significant other, other than being intimate so don't think too deep onto that. I am also a virgin myself so no, there's nothing wrong with that! As long as you feel happy and healthy in what you're doing, that is what matters. Also whoever says it is a turnoff needs to quiet down and focus on themselves more. I'd rather have to wait a couple of years to be intimate with someone who loves me and I love them then someone who does not. If you want to improve on things though i'd honestly say surround yourself with good friends that help you grow and strive for better. Go out and try new things and continue being yourself.
Butterflies are attracted to beautiful gardens and flowers for a reason :wink:

Hey just came here to check my old acc.İt has been almost 2 years but thank you for your answer:smile:

İ am doing great rn! İt includes relationships☺️

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