Hey there!
Chronic pain sufferer here but caused by a rare genetic disease that I was born with. I was diagnosed at 19 after suffering with an array of symptoms since birth (which is rare for the disease I have as it is usually caught at birth) and I am now 20. However, don't let my different diagnosis fool you, my dad has osteoarthritis, rheumatoid arthritis and spina bifida so I also have close experience of someone with arthritis.
In my own experience and through watching my dad, the best thing you can do for yourself is look after YOU. Take time to process your diagnosis but also eat well, go walking, swimming or cycling (low impact exercise is GREAT) and try to keep yourself busy with hobbies and different fun things. I think the big thing is to accept that you will have harder days and you will have easier days, BUT, if you think about it, every single thing in life works that way.
I would advise you don't think of it as 'limiting' you but more as something that just exists. You can stand there and watch it curiously, observe it and acknowledge that that is now a label for something you have been suffering from. You have arthritis and there is no way to beat around that. And sure, it's probably awful. But you also have so many wonderful things in your life. I like to think of my genetic disease as a little pet. It's like it follows me around constantly and it's always on my mind. Somedays, it needs water, food and a little bit of love and time but sometimes, it's happy to do it's own thing. I think that that mindset might help you?
If it helps at all, I was fully planning to go into an active career (theatre) but changed my path slightly in order to feel like it was more accessible. I changed from wanting to be an actor to wanting to be a director and I have now found that this has massively changed how I approach my future career. There are often many careers inside of each other (if that makes sense?) it might just take some time to find it.
Finally, don't discredit the previous commenter. As a pain sufferer, I have found certain supplements to benefit me such as turmeric and black pepper. Additionally, I am in the process of retraining my brain to get it to a point where it doesn't react negatively to pain. This is done through meditation - I especially enjoy pairing it with yoga which is low impact. Whilst improving gut health, doesn't necessarily change things imo, there are natural herbal ingredients that can help soothe the immune system AND also the nervous system. Herbal teas, essential oils etc as often helping the brain can help in other ways too!
Hope this helps you! Let me know if I can help anymore.
