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girl being a koreaboo

I'm half korean, half italian. We had like an international day where we get to express our culture and diversity but then some girls have apparently taken a liken to me - kpop ones in particular. They haven't said anything direct to me about korea but I've been shown text messages of the things they say about me and straykids and how im "close enough". I should have saw it coming bc a similar situation happened with my friend. idk why they're fixated on it and theres a girl in particular who keeps talking to me. I blocked her online and i made it clear that shes being weird and i want nothing to do with her. I'm not interested and her intentions are weird.
I feel pathetic for asking for help and advice because i'm nearly 20 years old and i should know what to do but idk how to erase her from my life when she just walks up to me, without acknowledging any hints. My friends are no help, the find it hilarious that this is happening and I did too for a while but its been 4 months and it's getting more weird and creepy rather than funny.
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Original post by Anonymous
I'm half korean, half italian. We had like an international day where we get to express our culture and diversity but then some girls have apparently taken a liken to me - kpop ones in particular. They haven't said anything direct to me about korea but I've been shown text messages of the things they say about me and straykids and how im "close enough". I should have saw it coming bc a similar situation happened with my friend. idk why they're fixated on it and theres a girl in particular who keeps talking to me. I blocked her online and i made it clear that shes being weird and i want nothing to do with her. I'm not interested and her intentions are weird.
I feel pathetic for asking for help and advice because i'm nearly 20 years old and i should know what to do but idk how to erase her from my life when she just walks up to me, without acknowledging any hints. My friends are no help, the find it hilarious that this is happening and I did too for a while but its been 4 months and it's getting more weird and creepy rather than funny.
It was funny because she thought she could talk to me in korean but she ended up talking gibberish. I can only speak english so i went with it but it's just a pain now. I put it under health bc i no longer feel confident about my race bc i know that people are just gonna fetish me. Like I know i'm guy and i should get over it but its easier said than done.
Original post by Anonymous
I'm half korean, half italian. We had like an international day where we get to express our culture and diversity but then some girls have apparently taken a liken to me - kpop ones in particular. They haven't said anything direct to me about korea but I've been shown text messages of the things they say about me and straykids and how im "close enough". I should have saw it coming bc a similar situation happened with my friend. idk why they're fixated on it and theres a girl in particular who keeps talking to me. I blocked her online and i made it clear that shes being weird and i want nothing to do with her. I'm not interested and her intentions are weird.
I feel pathetic for asking for help and advice because i'm nearly 20 years old and i should know what to do but idk how to erase her from my life when she just walks up to me, without acknowledging any hints. My friends are no help, the find it hilarious that this is happening and I did too for a while but its been 4 months and it's getting more weird and creepy rather than funny.

Honestly, I would consider this harassment as you definitely don't seem comfortable from my perspective.
I'd advise you to go on and talk to her about her behaviour and how much it affects you (how creepy and strange it seems).
If things get extreme, try making her understand how uncomfortable you feel and how serious this is to you.

I wish you all the best, have a great day! :smile:

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