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My boyfriend left me because he said my breasts and butt were too small

What do I do? I am so confused!

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Reply 2
Move on and cut all contact with your ex.

Get to know other single guys who are attractive to you, consider you visually attractive and have no complaints about size.
The types of guys who are fixated on size related issues tend to be either very insecure or obnoxious.
Better off avoided.
Good luck!
Reply 3
Original post by fallingstarlight
What do I do? I am so confused!

Find someone else who won't let that ruin a relationship
Original post by fallingstarlight
What do I do? I am so confused!

Be glad that you're rid of him. Sounds like someone you shouldn't want in your life. Obviously I get that it hurts when anyone makes comments like that, but there will be plenty of people out there who are both attracted to you and care about your feelings. Find one of those people and forget about him.
Original post by fallingstarlight
What do I do? I am so confused!


Gives signals of the guy using you for your body. Or only had care or eyes for your body and not you. Find a guy that doesn’t do that who doesn’t care about your physical appearance.
(edited 11 months ago)
Be glad he left, as he has a small brain...
Original post by londonmyst
Move on and cut all contact with your ex.
Get to know other single guys who are attractive to you, consider you visually attractive and have no complaints about size.
The types of guys who are fixated on size related issues tend to be either very insecure or obnoxious.
Better off avoided.
Good luck!

Thank you so much!
Original post by Surnia
Be glad he left, as he has a small brain...

True :smile:
Original post by Asi88
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Yes
Reply 10
Original post by fallingstarlight
What do I do? I am so confused!


I live small butt
Original post by fallingstarlight
What do I do? I am so confused!

Your ex sounds shallow and a waste of time - there is more to a relationship than how someone looks. Move on - you can do so much better.
Reply 12
Original post by fallingstarlight
What do I do? I am so confused!

hi
No doubt. Find a new one right now. All the best!
i’m small too! there’s so many guys who appreciate us and don’t determine a relationship based on our size, body proportions. that’s very superficial and there are more mature and loving guys out there. feel confident in your body, there’s more to life than the reason he left <33
Original post by fallingstarlight
What do I do? I am so confused!

First of all sorry u had to go through that. That is horrible and he is a horrible person. You should get rid of him and be glad of it. But don't let it bring you down and make you feel horrible about yourself. That guy is totally NOT worth it, he sounds vain, superficial and overall ****. You are beautiful the way you are and deserve someone who will appreciate your beauty 🙂 ❤️ .
DO NOT let some guy who is probs too insecure about himself bring you down. You got this girl, own your little figure and don't pursue it anymore. Don't try and find answers because its pointless. You got your answer loud and clear- he is a ****. I know it will be hard trying to get over him and you have a lot of emotions rn but trust me, do not pursue that guy or try and look for answers. He is not worth it whereas you are totally worth it, girl.
Reply 16
Original post by fallingstarlight
What do I do? I am so confused!

Whose breasts and butt was he comparing you to? That's what I want to know! Honestly forget him.
Reply 17
Better off without him.
Sorry😭
He definitelt isn't worth it

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