I've adopted this mindset whereby if people don't want to befriend me or have anything to do with me-it's their problem, not mine. I'm sure many of us want people to like us and we sometimes get caught up with people who we want to like us, but who don't want to know. I do believe that people who spurn or ignore the hand of friendship have a problem with you, and whatever that problem is, they're insecure about it and they probably won't tell you what their problem is.
I know that sometimes you'll have a problem with people if they've hurt you in some ways, which is perfectly reasonable, but we shouldn't be afraid of telling people why you've got a problem with them. If you don't unload your problems by talking about them, the more likely it is they'll build up and consume you.
Do you agree with this, or do you have another stance on this subject matter?