Relationship

I just like a girl she is very beautiful means I can't define her beauty
and I want to talk to her and spend my whole life with her in this relationship sex is not the first priority. My first priority is love.

Reply 1

Admit-One

Universities Forum Helper

Not clear what advice you're after, but talking to her seems like a logical starting off point.

Reply 2

xewow

Actually, I am a introvert and shy guy who hadn't speak with girls. but now days I saw her roaming around the college which makes me uncomfortable and due to this I am falling into bad habits.

Reply 3

Admit-One

Universities Forum Helper

Original post by xewow

Actually, I am a introvert and shy guy who hadn't speak with girls. but now days I saw her roaming around the college which makes me uncomfortable and due to this I am falling into bad habits.

Imagining spend your life together before you've spoken or really know anything about them is not a good start.

You need to start somewhere, practice small talk. Even saying hi is better than nothing.

Reply 4

jcurry1234

Original post by xewow

Actually, I am a introvert and shy guy who hadn't speak with girls. but now days I saw her roaming around the college which makes me uncomfortable and due to this I am falling into bad habits.

It would be a good idea to spark up a conversation with her! Although you may feel nervous just go for it, maybe ask her for coffee :smile:

Reply 5

Surnia

Life & Style Forum Helper

Original post by xewow

Actually, I am a introvert and shy guy who hadn't speak with girls. but now days I saw her roaming around the college which makes me uncomfortable and due to this I am falling into bad habits.

That's not a good start for a potential relationship, blaming someone else for your poor behaviour. Sort yourself out and learn how to talk to girls (which is as friends first).

Reply 6

xewow

It was just after a few weeks of my college life I was in my hostel canteen when I saw her for the first time we both had eye contact she was with her two friends and I was following them into a hostel and after some time she sends their friends away and gave me a chance to talk to her but I was nervous, shy, and introvert I can't start a conversation with her and the same thing repeat for more 3-4 days but I was an idiot and now I am just regretting and following bad culture. But I wanna tell her that I like and truly like her. My love is not for lust. I don't want to. But wanna stay with her. That's all that I want from her. But now she just hangs out with her very few friends and a fat guy and I think that they both are in a relationship.

Reply 7

Admit-One

Universities Forum Helper

Concerned that you keep throwing the word 'love' around when you've never spoken to them and have barely exchanged eye contact.

Putting the cart before the horse.