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Hi,

My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for eight years.
He can't stay in bed with me for more than a minute, but he will regularly masturbate while taking a shower, and I've noticed over the last few months that he isn't interested in having sex with me; if I ask, he says it's too hot and I can't. That is a terrible problem I am having in my relationship, and I am sad. Even when I tried to talk to him about it, he stated it's normal, not a problem, and advised me to visit a psychiatrist.
Could you kindly assist me in determining what is wrong with him or me?

Thank you!
Ria
No, it’s not normal and he needs a psychiatrist, not you.
I can’t really see your relationship lasting like this.

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