dating ex girlfriends - next step

so last year, I dated this girl named Lillian. We dated for a year, but then I cheated on her to help out a friend. she forgave me, but then a week later called it off. I still really like her, and it's been a year. She says she doesn't have feelings for me anymore, but I still want to be with her. What should I do?

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Anonymous #1

leave it!! she doesn't want you right now, so it's not good for you to still try and pursue her. she forgave you for cheating, but i wouldn't blame her if she still doesn't fully trust you anymore. she's probably starting to, if she hasn't already, move on from your guys' relationship. it sucks when you like someone a lot but they don't like you back, i get it- but there really isn't anything you can do in this situation but leave it. trying to force her to like you back for example (not saying you would do that but still) will not work- because if she doesn't have feelings, she doesn't have feelings. there's nothing you can do to change that.