Does he still want to go on a date with me?

A couple of weeks ago, I was talking on facebook to this guy I met at a bar recently. We were talking for a while, and he said we should meet up when he gets back from uni for christmas, and he seemed really keen. I haven't spoken to him since as we've both had a lot of work to do, but I know he's coming back next weekend. I'm a bit worried that he hasn't texted me or anything since, and I'm worried that this means he's not planning on meeting up with me anymore. I don't want to text him because it was him who suggested we meet up so I think I might seem desperate. Do you think I should wait a few days to see if he texts me?

Reply 1

tom_tom_tom

Maybe leave him a facebook message, asking how he has been, if the work load has got better, not talking about meeting up and then see what he says, he may then suggest meeting up. Its worth a try? and i wouldnt think it seems desperate...

Reply 2

rich.mike

+1 on sending him a message. I wouldn't see it as too keen if a girl messaged me asking if I wanted to meet up.

Reply 3

smiley_colly

+2 especially seen as its gettin closse to KISSmass!! hehe

Reply 4

Vixen

Yeah, I agree with the guys above. Just send him a chatty, friendly message. You can say about meeting up in a casual way. If it was the other way round I wouldnt mind a guy checking we were still meeting up. Dont worry hun, just go for it :smile:

Reply 5

alan910_2

He may be embarresed to ask you again cos he might be nervous.

Definitely message him.

Reply 6

mollymustard

I totally agree with whats been said above. I don't see how a casual message can do any harm at all, at least it shows your still intrested. If nothing happens, at least you know you've tried your best, and there is a good chance he will hint at meet up again anyway.

Reply 7

DannyBoy123

Yeah he may not want to ask again for the same reason you don't want to ask - he thinks it will sound desperate. Personally I would love it if a girl texted me asking if we were still meeting up after I had suggested it (I wouldn't just drop it in without thinking) but maybe that's just me.

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