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In the pursuit of love: what should I do?

Sooo there's this guy in my bio class. We don't really talk in person but he does text me a lot. He's super nice and always checks in on me but idk if it's just friendship since I'm the only girl he talks to.
There's another guy in the year above and I found out from one of my peers that he has liked me since last year when I was in year 12 and he was in year 13. And apparently he still likes me and he's first year uni rn. I found out that he kept asking for my number from this peer since last year which is honestly pretty sweet.
What should I do??
Not the most experienced in this field but I do wanna end up with someone loving and caring.

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Original post by Anonymous
Sooo there's this guy in my bio class. We don't really talk in person but he does text me a lot. He's super nice and always checks in on me but idk if it's just friendship since I'm the only girl he talks to.
There's another guy in the year above and I found out from one of my peers that he has liked me since last year when I was in year 12 and he was in year 13. And apparently he still likes me and he's first year uni rn. I found out that he kept asking for my number from this peer since last year which is honestly pretty sweet.
What should I do??
Not the most experienced in this field but I do wanna end up with someone loving and caring.

I think it all depends on their personality and your history with them. As a bit of a book worm, I totally get the idea of wanting someone who is kind and loving as the person you end up with!

Maybe spend time with each of them in a neutral setting and see how you get one, love is hard but it'll be worth it when you find who you want to be with!

Good luck! <3
Original post by Anonymous
Sooo there's this guy in my bio class. We don't really talk in person but he does text me a lot. He's super nice and always checks in on me but idk if it's just friendship since I'm the only girl he talks to.
There's another guy in the year above and I found out from one of my peers that he has liked me since last year when I was in year 12 and he was in year 13. And apparently he still likes me and he's first year uni rn. I found out that he kept asking for my number from this peer since last year which is honestly pretty sweet.
What should I do??
Not the most experienced in this field but I do wanna end up with someone loving and caring.

The comment above summarised this pretty well!
I would say try to get along and become friends with both naturally - then let your gut and fate slowly guide you in the right direction.
I wish you all the best - good luck! :smile:

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Small update:
I've decided not to text the older guy. I was anxious over it all weekend cause I'm always anxious when talking to new people but that overthinking made me consider my feelings for the guy from bio and realize I do have genuine feelings for him. I would feel bad leading the other person on knowing that I like someone else. I do feel bad as he's liked me for a while but I know he'll find someone better and someone who has more time for him (I'm doing alevels now and starting vet med at uni in September)

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