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Real or fake friend

I have a friend who sometimes makes me think that she is fake like im giving yall some situations where i thoight this
On her birthday i gave her a big hamper made all by myself with a lot of hardwork and efforts but on my birthday i got nothing not even a card
And also when im sitting with her in canteen she eats everything all by her and dont ask me if you wanna eat or not
So giys tell me if she is real or fake
Well the first situation you've mentioned gives me the sense that she is inconsiderate, even if she was not well off a handmade card would be expected. The second situation doesn't really give me much since a lot of people do that. So I can't give a definite conclusion unless you give me a but more specific situations. But she is leaning towards mean from the first
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Original post by Anonymous
Well the first situation you've mentioned gives me the sense that she is inconsiderate, even if she was not well off a handmade card would be expected. The second situation doesn't really give me much since a lot of people do that. So I can't give a definite conclusion unless you give me a but more specific situations. But she is leaning towards mean from the first
The things really make me feel worse like ik she is from a welloff family but i was just expecting a card but i got nothing but at the meantine she was there to give a lot of things including cards to her other friend but why not me when i do so many efforts
Original post by notazra
The things really make me feel worse like ik she is from a welloff family but i was just expecting a card but i got nothing but at the meantine she was there to give a lot of things including cards to her other friend but why not me when i do so many efforts

Well it sounds that she doesn't care for you at all so she's unfortunately probably a fake friend. She's probably stringing you along. I'm so sorry for you. No one should have to go through that.
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Original post by Obsidian♡Hart
Well it sounds that she doesn't care for you at all so she's unfortunately probably a fake friend. She's probably stringing you along. I'm so sorry for you. No one should have to go through that.

What should i do then?
Original post by notazra
What should i do then?

I'd recommend slowly distancing yourself. Don't confront her it'll just bring you more trouble. So during lunch maybe excuse yourself, try not to meet up and block her on social media. Try keeping conversations short and concise and try to be more 'professional' instead of friendly.
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Original post by Obsidian♡Hart
I'd recommend slowly distancing yourself. Don't confront her it'll just bring you more trouble. So during lunch maybe excuse yourself, try not to meet up and block her on social media. Try keeping conversations short and concise and try to be more 'professional' instead of friendly.

How can i be distant from her when she sits beside me in school, i have to confront her evrry minute

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