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Is this sexual assault?

I was sleeping over at a friends house a few weeks ago. We were laying on her bed just on our phones. Everything was fine until she randomly says “I want to mount you.” I was very confused at this comment because it was just so strange and out of the blue that I didn’t know what to say. She then proceeded to climb on top of me, and try to, well, “mount me”. At this point I start yelling at her to stop and get off of me, but she does not listen. She then manages to straddle one of my legs and grinds into it once or twice. I manage to get her off of me right after she did that. All she did was laugh and then lay back down. I just really don’t know what to do at this point.
Original post by Anonymous
I was sleeping over at a friends house a few weeks ago. We were laying on her bed just on our phones. Everything was fine until she randomly says “I want to mount you.” I was very confused at this comment because it was just so strange and out of the blue that I didn’t know what to say. She then proceeded to climb on top of me, and try to, well, “mount me”. At this point I start yelling at her to stop and get off of me, but she does not listen. She then manages to straddle one of my legs and grinds into it once or twice. I manage to get her off of me right after she did that. All she did was laugh and then lay back down. I just really don’t know what to do at this point.

Yes ,most certainly it is sexual assault. Such assaults can affect you psychologically so dont treat too light. If you need therapy to get over it, let me know and will suggest further.
Original post by Anonymous
I was sleeping over at a friends house a few weeks ago. We were laying on her bed just on our phones. Everything was fine until she randomly says “I want to mount you.” I was very confused at this comment because it was just so strange and out of the blue that I didn’t know what to say. She then proceeded to climb on top of me, and try to, well, “mount me”. At this point I start yelling at her to stop and get off of me, but she does not listen. She then manages to straddle one of my legs and grinds into it once or twice. I manage to get her off of me right after she did that. All she did was laugh and then lay back down. I just really don’t know what to do at this point.

It is she crossed your boundaries and you assertively said no this isn't acceptable shes not a good friend shes laughing at your distress and this is just uncomfortable for you (I assume your uncomfortable). You did nothing to deserve this its sexual assault. You didnt consent or ask and therefore you where fully in the right.
Original post by Anonymous
I was sleeping over at a friends house a few weeks ago. We were laying on her bed just on our phones. Everything was fine until she randomly says “I want to mount you.” I was very confused at this comment because it was just so strange and out of the blue that I didn’t know what to say. She then proceeded to climb on top of me, and try to, well, “mount me”. At this point I start yelling at her to stop and get off of me, but she does not listen. She then manages to straddle one of my legs and grinds into it once or twice. I manage to get her off of me right after she did that. All she did was laugh and then lay back down. I just really don’t know what to do at this point.

Further to my earlier message up above, I concur with what "Tai Duckie" says, she is NOT a friend, she sounds like a female sexual predator and I would immediately distance yourself from her. She may have excuses, but there are no
excuses for sexual assault. As I say, if you want pointers for therapyoptions let me know by direct message/or on thread whichever.
Original post by Anonymous
I was sleeping over at a friends house a few weeks ago. We were laying on her bed just on our phones. Everything was fine until she randomly says “I want to mount you.” I was very confused at this comment because it was just so strange and out of the blue that I didn’t know what to say. She then proceeded to climb on top of me, and try to, well, “mount me”. At this point I start yelling at her to stop and get off of me, but she does not listen. She then manages to straddle one of my legs and grinds into it once or twice. I manage to get her off of me right after she did that. All she did was laugh and then lay back down. I just really don’t know what to do at this point.

Sorry to split my replies up. I just thought to ask you, what was her demeanour immediately afterwards ?. If she knew you were upset by it, what did she say ? Was she remorseful, and did she say anything at all, like "sorry".

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