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Va Va Voom
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people i speak to every so often aren't friends. i'm talking about friends. and with friends, something doesn't need to develop
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(Original post by lynseyweth)
Yes but MOST people disagree. Maybe those who disagree are young and naive and don't realise men and women don't always want to jump into bed with each other.
Whos the narrow minded one now, I don't see why you cant respect others opinion without throwing silly imature insults. Really i think it is you that needs to grow up my friend.

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Im talking from a male perspective not female you may not have sexual feelings but if he finds you attractive then he would.
well then, I guess my self esteem just suffered a huger blow
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(Original post by lessthanthree)
just because I think someone's attractive doesn't mean I want to jump them.
This applies to males not females, might I say you are indeed attractive
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(Original post by SJ No.18)
You don't believe that do you. the guy has be someone with a bit of dough, if you are telling the truth then so be it but I highly doubt it.

Again you may not want to jump him but if you are ATTRACTIVE then he would feel differently.
i do actually believe that, otherwise i wouldn't have said it. if i was attracted to someone, who didn't happen to have a bit of dough , that fact wouldn't change anything and i would still want to jump him. honestly. independent women and all that tripe
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(Original post by lynseyweth)
Maybe those who disagree are young and naive and don't realise men and women don't always want to jump into bed with each other.
I'm young and naive because i have a different opinion to you?

I think maybe you are the naive one.
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(Original post by Natalie Lane)
well then, I guess my self esteem just suffered a huger blow
Don't, I'm sure you are very attractive and your guy friend wants to make love to you many a time but is afraid to how you react to it.
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(Original post by SJ No.18)
Whos the narrow minded one now, I don't see why you cant respect others opinion without throwing silly imature insults. Really i think it is you that needs to grow up my friend.

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I did not throw out any insults and I am sorry if you feel I have insulted you but there was no intentions. Oh and I am already grown up thanks very much.
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(Original post by Makavelli_07)
I'm young and naive because i have a different opinion to you?

I think maybe you are the naive one.
No you are young because you are, and you are naive because you seem to think that all men and women want sex. You are entitled to an opinion but it is a false statement that you make as not every person wants sex with the opposite sex.
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(Original post by lynseyweth)
I did not throw out any insults and I am sorry if you feel I have insulted you but there was no intentions. Oh and I am already grown up thanks very much.
I doubt you are and I mean mentally. You do know that maturity is not directly proportional to age, because I don't think you do.

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(Original post by lynseyweth)
No you are young because you are, and you are naive because you seem to think that all men and women want sex. You are entitled to an opinion but it is a false statement that you make as not every person wants sex with the opposite sex.
I'll accept the young accusation.

However i don't think that every man wants to sleep with every woman, and vice versa. I do, though, believe that given the chance the majority of men would sleep with an attractive friend if given the chance.
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To me, NO, 'cause i rather have guys as friends......theres not much i can talk to girls about
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(Original post by guest1984)
To me, NO, 'cause i rather have guys as friends......theres not much i can talk to girls about
I'd say quite the oppisite cos you can't talk to other guys about how you feel about certain things (NOTE: this isn't about being Macho, its just that girls understand it better)
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(Original post by Dude)
I'd say quite the oppisite cos you can't talk to other guys about how you feel about certain things (NOTE: this isn't about being Macho, its just that girls understand it better)
well....then, your just a girl's guy......i am a guy's guy .......well, the thing is, telling your "girl" friends your feeling emotional, or going into the deep crap, will make them feel sorry for you.
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(Original post by guest1984)
i am a guy's guy
I think that's a bit to much information. That sort of thing should stay personal to you, me thinks. :p:
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My friendship with a bloke has gone a bit wrong... see 'Male Friend'
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(Original post by Makavelli_07)
I think that's a bit to much information. That sort of thing should stay personal to you, me thinks. :p:
:eek: NOOOOOOOOOOO, i didn't mean it in THAT way.....!!!!
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(Original post by guest1984)
:eek: NOOOOOOOOOOO, i didn't mean it in THAT way.....!!!!
It's alright dude, you don't have to deny it. I'm just not sure you should be sharing that sort of info with us. :p:
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(Original post by ladyshort4u)
Well??

If you are friends with a guy, do you think you can just stay his friend always or do you think that one day a spark will fly between the two of you.

Can a guy and a girl ever be just friends...??

What are your views and opinions on this?
I don't think it's possible it's just nature you cannot ignore the fact that we are just animals with conscience that's all , So it up to you
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(Original post by guest1984)
well....then, your just a girl's guy......i am a guy's guy .......well, the thing is, telling your "girl" friends your feeling emotional, or going into the deep crap, will make them feel sorry for you.
Considering the fact that I get girls telling me their problems in return, I don't think that matters.
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