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Bestie is crushing hard

So, my new bff just moved to my town and she has been here for 8 months. At first, she told everyone she was lesbian. But, recently, she has admitted to liking a ginger boy. She is so confused, but she really likes him. He used to like her, but he doesn’t anymore. I think he is scared of getting hurt, so he won’t admit his feeling to anyone, even himself. Does anyone have any advice on how to get him to like my bff back?
Original post by Anonymous
So, my new bff just moved to my town and she has been here for 8 months. At first, she told everyone she was lesbian. But, recently, she has admitted to liking a ginger boy. She is so confused, but she really likes him. He used to like her, but he doesn’t anymore. I think he is scared of getting hurt, so he won’t admit his feeling to anyone, even himself. Does anyone have any advice on how to get him to like my bff back?

You can't make him like her. It's up to him.
Original post by Anonymous
So, my new bff just moved to my town and she has been here for 8 months. At first, she told everyone she was lesbian. But, recently, she has admitted to liking a ginger boy. She is so confused, but she really likes him. He used to like her, but he doesn’t anymore. I think he is scared of getting hurt, so he won’t admit his feeling to anyone, even himself. Does anyone have any advice on how to get him to like my bff back?

You can always let things be and see how things play out - it’s their relationship anyhow. If you really want to be helpful, you could always tell your best friend what the ginger guy liked her before. :smile:
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Original post by Anonymous
So, my new bff just moved to my town and she has been here for 8 months. At first, she told everyone she was lesbian. But, recently, she has admitted to liking a ginger boy. She is so confused, but she really likes him. He used to like her, but he doesn’t anymore. I think he is scared of getting hurt, so he won’t admit his feeling to anyone, even himself. Does anyone have any advice on how to get him to like my bff back?

ngl u got dead answers. Right, this is what ur going to do, ur going to get something going like a function movie idea with ur friend group u want to invite another couple of people, u invite gingerboy's like best friend and then u say to him on the phone bring who ever u want. U get ur pal to accidentally say "is ginger boy coming (idk his name)" then once she does that u go "I'll brb" then go on mute, the boy will relise this and because he knows that his pal like the lassie then he'll tell ginger to come to the like movie switch the tickets around so he starts talking to the girl. Regardless he'll still think the lass is fit so aye he'll want to have a chance, and since she said on the phone to the boy that she wants him to come then he'll think he has a chance. EZ PZ
Original post by Anonymous
So, my new bff just moved to my town and she has been here for 8 months. At first, she told everyone she was lesbian. But, recently, she has admitted to liking a ginger boy. She is so confused, but she really likes him. He used to like her, but he doesn’t anymore. I think he is scared of getting hurt, so he won’t admit his feeling to anyone, even himself. Does anyone have any advice on how to get him to like my bff back?
You can make cute interactions and maybe help her out with planning events with him but you can't make someone like her. Especially if he's getting scared of feeling hurt, you dont want to be manipulating his feelings especially as ur friend is very confused
Original post by tbhidcrn
ngl u got dead answers. Right, this is what ur going to do, ur going to get something going like a function movie idea with ur friend group u want to invite another couple of people, u invite gingerboy's like best friend and then u say to him on the phone bring who ever u want. U get ur pal to accidentally say "is ginger boy coming (idk his name)" then once she does that u go "I'll brb" then go on mute, the boy will relise this and because he knows that his pal like the lassie then he'll tell ginger to come to the like movie switch the tickets around so he starts talking to the girl. Regardless he'll still think the lass is fit so aye he'll want to have a chance, and since she said on the phone to the boy that she wants him to come then he'll think he has a chance. EZ PZ
this plan is very detailed...
i like your thinking tho

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