Starting Fresh & New Friends

The first year of university is a unique mix of excitement and apprehension, especially when you don’t know anyone! That was my reality when I kicked off my Psychology studies at the University of Roehampton.

My first few days
I was worried that groups of friends would have already formed and that I would struggle to fit in. To add to those worries, term started just a month after my foot operation. I was on crutches, which meant that I didn’t go to many freshers’ events.

Breaking the ice, cooking dinners, and making friends
Let me dispel a common myth right away – missing out on the flashy freshers’ events doesn’t cast a shadow over your university experience. Sure, the allure of parties is undeniable, but opting out doesn’t mean your university experience will be much different to those who went. I found myself living with three girls, and we all bonded well. On the first night, we cooked dinner together and got to know one another. Since then, whatever it is – tea, games night, chit chat or a movie night – I had them just a door away. I soon found friends on my course who were in a similar position, everyone was so welcoming and supportive.

Everything in reach on campus
The library, gym, cafés and shops are only a short walk away, which is very handy. If you are anything like me and would like to get into the bigger city, then it’s a 25-minute train ride and you’re in Central London ready to explore. I love the atmosphere on campus. After my long days out, seeing my accommodation is a relief and feels like home.

Be yourself!
My suggestion to you is – be yourself! University is not school, embrace who you are, and you will be pleasantly surprised just how many people will love you just for that.

Sara Joanna Kadja

(edited 1 year ago)