arkwarddd

Does anyone else wish you could just immediately become like besties with everyone like the minute you meet them cos like when you try to be funny/nice to someone you barely knowand it just falls flat on its face it is so awkward like i am always up for just straight up good time with everyone but people can be so awkward and cringe abt it. Also, when i make the effort to be outgoing it is a big deal cos like im rlly socially anxious with strangers so pls guys just be kind to everyoneeee and dont make them feel awkward or horrible cos like its gonna make them just stop trying and thats tragic as hell

Reply 1

Shez2002

6

Haha I get exactly how you feel it can be pretty hard making friends especially the older you get and the more responsibilities you have (like how is it so easy in yr7 😭) I wish I could skip the effort bit and just get comfy with people

Reply 2

tater tot 55

5

Original post by MadisonBailey06

Does anyone else wish you could just immediately become like besties with everyone like the minute you meet them cos like when you try to be funny/nice to someone you barely knowand it just falls flat on its face it is so awkward like i am always up for just straight up good time with everyone but people can be so awkward and cringe abt it. Also, when i make the effort to be outgoing it is a big deal cos like im rlly socially anxious with strangers so pls guys just be kind to everyoneeee and dont make them feel awkward or horrible cos like its gonna make them just stop trying and thats tragic as hell

I totally get it ....I am actllay like that ...I just want to party with e first person I talk to you .... you know .... and also if the person you want to become friends with you than it wll be so ....if that makes sense .... the only way to for them to over come that is for them to become comfortable .....yo know

Reply 3

depriveofsocial

12

Original post by MadisonBailey06

Does anyone else wish you could just immediately become like besties with everyone like the minute you meet them cos like when you try to be funny/nice to someone you barely knowand it just falls flat on its face it is so awkward like i am always up for just straight up good time with everyone but people can be so awkward and cringe abt it. Also, when i make the effort to be outgoing it is a big deal cos like im rlly socially anxious with strangers so pls guys just be kind to everyoneeee and dont make them feel awkward or horrible cos like its gonna make them just stop trying and thats tragic as hell

Yep. It’s definitely awkward for the first time you meet people and try to become closer.

I’ve gotten use to warming up to people rather than jumping right into it. Normally, people befriend me and slowly see more of my weird and crazy side and it.

Reply 4

Ghostlady

21

If they being awkward and cringe then thats their issue. You will find people who will love you for who you are. You are doing the exact right thing by chatting to people as you are upping the probabilities that you will find someone who you click with 🙂

arkwarddd

Quick Reply

Articles for you