Much older men perving

does anyone else get this problem and hate it? it's one of the reasons that stopped me going to beach in my bikini on holiday much older men and when i say older men in there 50s 60s 70s staring at me am only 18 don t mind guys doing it around my age but when much older men do it its annoying

i get that feeling i was at the beach last week trying to get a tan and a lot of older women caped staring at me i got nervous because I'm only 18 male and it just makes me week to my stomach

so true

does anyone else get this problem and hate it? it's one of the reasons that stopped me going to beach in my bikini on holiday much older men and when i say older men in there 50s 60s 70s staring at me am only 18 don t mind guys doing it around my age but when much older men do it its annoying

Can never get this problem as a man, but as one I don't like this behaviour. All the more when they make a pervert comment.

i can't go anywhere with out older people staring at me

Maybe if you dressed modestly it wouldnt happen.
Alhamdulidah

girls aren't just going to wear pants or long sleeve shirts on all day

I sincerely hope they would wear pants you yank. That would be unhygienic if they didnt

as a muslim
1: we dont actually go to beaches where people dont wear little clothes due to religious beliefs.
2: You bring a bad picture to islam and play into the stereotype
3 Everyone is entitled to their own actions and decisions
4 Keep your thoughts to yourself, and there is no need for the 'yanks' part.
i hope u understand where im coming from brother/sister.

bro i am a man and most of the time i will not be wearing a shirt and older women would talk under there breath about me

as a muslim
1: we dont actually go to beaches where people dont wear little clothes due to religious beliefs.
2: You bring a bad picture to islam and play into the stereotype
3 Everyone is entitled to their own actions and decisions
4 Keep your thoughts to yourself, and there is no need for the 'yanks' part.
i hope u understand where im coming from brother/sister.

does anyone else get this problem and hate it? it's one of the reasons that stopped me going to beach in my bikini on holiday much older men and when i say older men in there 50s 60s 70s staring at me am only 18 don t mind guys doing it around my age but when much older men do it its annoying

Maybe if you dressed modestly it wouldnt happen.

Alhamdulidah

My girlfriend is Muslim and she likes going to pools and beaches. She doesn't wear a hijab but wears a long black exercise shirt & leggings and stays close by me. As you mentioned being in a bikini it looks like you're not Muslim.
It's stupid that you have to change what you're doing because of men (the patriarchy).
Wear a sheer cover-up while not in the water (you will get more tan faster in the water anyway) and if you're wearing a thong/under boob/etc consider wearing something less suggestive. You deserve to feel s3xy but unfortunately if men are staring/making comments try somewhere else

My misguided brother, surely we must provide counsel for all people.
Its not the point that you may not frequent beaches or other wonders of the world that Allah most high has given us. Is everyone entitled to what they want even if it leads to perdition brother? Listen to yourself the west has corrupted you. Do not lose track of the honourable path

if u dont mind wht do u mean by wearing a sheer cover up

This is a ridiculous backward take. You realise women get raped no matter what they wear, and usually by men they know? Men will stare at/harass young girls in their modest school uniform if they're that way inclined. Maybe teach the men around you how to behave like decent human beings towards women, instead of blaming women for everything.