Breaking up after concert ?! Ignored completely disrespect
Guys, I have trust issues I know but
My bf went to a concert with his friend , my bf drives. He live an hour drive from the concert. He called me at 6pm I was asleep I messaged at 9pm instead of calling cus I know the concert would be starting. Anyways when it got to 12:30 I called him so perhaps we could speak when he’s home by then he should be home ( he’s been working since 6am-5pm ) so he defo ain’t going anywhere after the concert. He didn’t answer or reply to my messages from 9pm. It’s now 3am I’ve called him 6 times and messaged. Nothing?! When he left the concert he definitely went on his phone to use gps so why would he not see my message or call?????
Nothing in this world can give me an answer to what he was doing. He is clearly with a female. There’s no reason why he wouldn’t answer.
I’m so upset and devastated. In every relationship I’ve been cheated on. This is the longest one I’ve had 3 years.
I want to break up with him. I don’t need proof this is enough. You don’t ignore your spouse for all your night out. There’s noooo way. The concert finished at 11:30 I checked on the websites for the concert. It take him an hour to get home.
I won’t tolerate this. It’s totally disrespect. I always call him when I go out ALWAYS I know he sleeps early but I still call him no matter what time I get home. I keep crying my mind is running mad and tomorrow I need to go to my friends bday. I always cancel her birthdays I have to go but I’m absolutely defeated.
I’m 28 btw and my bf is 37
My bf went to a concert with his friend , my bf drives. He live an hour drive from the concert. He called me at 6pm I was asleep I messaged at 9pm instead of calling cus I know the concert would be starting. Anyways when it got to 12:30 I called him so perhaps we could speak when he’s home by then he should be home ( he’s been working since 6am-5pm ) so he defo ain’t going anywhere after the concert. He didn’t answer or reply to my messages from 9pm. It’s now 3am I’ve called him 6 times and messaged. Nothing?! When he left the concert he definitely went on his phone to use gps so why would he not see my message or call?????
Nothing in this world can give me an answer to what he was doing. He is clearly with a female. There’s no reason why he wouldn’t answer.
I’m so upset and devastated. In every relationship I’ve been cheated on. This is the longest one I’ve had 3 years.
I want to break up with him. I don’t need proof this is enough. You don’t ignore your spouse for all your night out. There’s noooo way. The concert finished at 11:30 I checked on the websites for the concert. It take him an hour to get home.
I won’t tolerate this. It’s totally disrespect. I always call him when I go out ALWAYS I know he sleeps early but I still call him no matter what time I get home. I keep crying my mind is running mad and tomorrow I need to go to my friends bday. I always cancel her birthdays I have to go but I’m absolutely defeated.
I’m 28 btw and my bf is 37
So based on no evidence you’ve assumed he’s cheating on you.
Half 11 finish to a concert then an hour long drive home. I can’t imagine most partners would bother getting in touch until the next day.
Half 11 finish to a concert then an hour long drive home. I can’t imagine most partners would bother getting in touch until the next day.
Reply 2
Original post by Admit-One
So based on no evidence you’ve assumed he’s cheating on you.
Half 11 finish to a concert then an hour long drive home. I can’t imagine most partners would bother getting in touch until the next day.
Half 11 finish to a concert then an hour long drive home. I can’t imagine most partners would bother getting in touch until the next day.
The only reason I called him back was before the concert he called me at 6pm probably when he was getting ready. I was asleep till 9pm so I thought I’ll return his call once I know he’s out of the concert.
He messaged me this morning saying jumping to conclusions with nothing about why I asked why he ignored my calls or messages!!!!
Reply 3
Original post by Admit-One
So based on no evidence you’ve assumed he’s cheating on you.
Half 11 finish to a concert then an hour long drive home. I can’t imagine most partners would bother getting in touch until the next day.
Half 11 finish to a concert then an hour long drive home. I can’t imagine most partners would bother getting in touch until the next day.
I don’t think you Need proof to figure out someone being dodgey! Does it not sound dodgey to you
Reply 4
Original post by Anonymous
I don’t think you Need proof to figure out someone being dodgey! Does it not sound dodgey to you
No. Its been a long day and he prob tired, why does he to talk at 1-3am?
Distrust and accusations like this will end things just as surely as cheating.
Original post by Anonymous
I don’t think you Need proof to figure out someone being dodgey! Does it not sound dodgey to you
It doesn’t sound dodgy in the slightest. Why is you missing a call during the day and not responding for 3 hours fine, but him missing a call at 00:30 when he’d been working since 6am and spent an hour driving each way to a concert is not OK and means he is cheating?! Did you consider that he might have been very tired and went straight to sleep as soon as he got home (especially if he normally sleeps early)?
This is very much a you issue, not a him issue. It might be a good idea to get some counselling to talk about why you have these trust issues.
Reply 6
Original post by Anonymous
Guys, I have trust issues I know but
My bf went to a concert with his friend , my bf drives. He live an hour drive from the concert. He called me at 6pm I was asleep I messaged at 9pm instead of calling cus I know the concert would be starting. Anyways when it got to 12:30 I called him so perhaps we could speak when he’s home by then he should be home ( he’s been working since 6am-5pm ) so he defo ain’t going anywhere after the concert. He didn’t answer or reply to my messages from 9pm. It’s now 3am I’ve called him 6 times and messaged. Nothing?! When he left the concert he definitely went on his phone to use gps so why would he not see my message or call?????
Nothing in this world can give me an answer to what he was doing. He is clearly with a female. There’s no reason why he wouldn’t answer.
I’m so upset and devastated. In every relationship I’ve been cheated on. This is the longest one I’ve had 3 years.
I want to break up with him. I don’t need proof this is enough. You don’t ignore your spouse for all your night out. There’s noooo way. The concert finished at 11:30 I checked on the websites for the concert. It take him an hour to get home.
I won’t tolerate this. It’s totally disrespect. I always call him when I go out ALWAYS I know he sleeps early but I still call him no matter what time I get home. I keep crying my mind is running mad and tomorrow I need to go to my friends bday. I always cancel her birthdays I have to go but I’m absolutely defeated.
I’m 28 btw and my bf is 37
My bf went to a concert with his friend , my bf drives. He live an hour drive from the concert. He called me at 6pm I was asleep I messaged at 9pm instead of calling cus I know the concert would be starting. Anyways when it got to 12:30 I called him so perhaps we could speak when he’s home by then he should be home ( he’s been working since 6am-5pm ) so he defo ain’t going anywhere after the concert. He didn’t answer or reply to my messages from 9pm. It’s now 3am I’ve called him 6 times and messaged. Nothing?! When he left the concert he definitely went on his phone to use gps so why would he not see my message or call?????
Nothing in this world can give me an answer to what he was doing. He is clearly with a female. There’s no reason why he wouldn’t answer.
I’m so upset and devastated. In every relationship I’ve been cheated on. This is the longest one I’ve had 3 years.
I want to break up with him. I don’t need proof this is enough. You don’t ignore your spouse for all your night out. There’s noooo way. The concert finished at 11:30 I checked on the websites for the concert. It take him an hour to get home.
I won’t tolerate this. It’s totally disrespect. I always call him when I go out ALWAYS I know he sleeps early but I still call him no matter what time I get home. I keep crying my mind is running mad and tomorrow I need to go to my friends bday. I always cancel her birthdays I have to go but I’m absolutely defeated.
I’m 28 btw and my bf is 37
If I had a friend/boyfriend who went to a concert an hour away, having worked all day, I would not contact him once, never mind 6 times. He must be tired out after all that, and probably just wanted to get to sleep. If I was the boyfriend I would be worried about the excessive calling at an anti social hour. And as for cheating, all this mistrust is jumping to conclusions.
Please stop this behaviour and the demanding expectations, otherwise he may well end the relationship
Reply 7
Original post by Anonymous
Guys, I have trust issues I know but
My bf went to a concert with his friend , my bf drives. He live an hour drive from the concert. He called me at 6pm I was asleep I messaged at 9pm instead of calling cus I know the concert would be starting. Anyways when it got to 12:30 I called him so perhaps we could speak when he’s home by then he should be home ( he’s been working since 6am-5pm ) so he defo ain’t going anywhere after the concert. He didn’t answer or reply to my messages from 9pm. It’s now 3am I’ve called him 6 times and messaged. Nothing?! When he left the concert he definitely went on his phone to use gps so why would he not see my message or call?????
Nothing in this world can give me an answer to what he was doing. He is clearly with a female. There’s no reason why he wouldn’t answer.
I’m so upset and devastated. In every relationship I’ve been cheated on. This is the longest one I’ve had 3 years.
I want to break up with him. I don’t need proof this is enough. You don’t ignore your spouse for all your night out. There’s noooo way. The concert finished at 11:30 I checked on the websites for the concert. It take him an hour to get home.
I won’t tolerate this. It’s totally disrespect. I always call him when I go out ALWAYS I know he sleeps early but I still call him no matter what time I get home. I keep crying my mind is running mad and tomorrow I need to go to my friends bday. I always cancel her birthdays I have to go but I’m absolutely defeated.
I’m 28 btw and my bf is 37
My bf went to a concert with his friend , my bf drives. He live an hour drive from the concert. He called me at 6pm I was asleep I messaged at 9pm instead of calling cus I know the concert would be starting. Anyways when it got to 12:30 I called him so perhaps we could speak when he’s home by then he should be home ( he’s been working since 6am-5pm ) so he defo ain’t going anywhere after the concert. He didn’t answer or reply to my messages from 9pm. It’s now 3am I’ve called him 6 times and messaged. Nothing?! When he left the concert he definitely went on his phone to use gps so why would he not see my message or call?????
Nothing in this world can give me an answer to what he was doing. He is clearly with a female. There’s no reason why he wouldn’t answer.
I’m so upset and devastated. In every relationship I’ve been cheated on. This is the longest one I’ve had 3 years.
I want to break up with him. I don’t need proof this is enough. You don’t ignore your spouse for all your night out. There’s noooo way. The concert finished at 11:30 I checked on the websites for the concert. It take him an hour to get home.
I won’t tolerate this. It’s totally disrespect. I always call him when I go out ALWAYS I know he sleeps early but I still call him no matter what time I get home. I keep crying my mind is running mad and tomorrow I need to go to my friends bday. I always cancel her birthdays I have to go but I’m absolutely defeated.
I’m 28 btw and my bf is 37
There must be something I’m missing here. He was working from 6am, so maybe got up at say 5am or earlier. He called you, but then it took you 3 hours to reply, and you want to break up with him because he did not answer the phone in the early hours of the morning after being up for nearly 24 hrs??????
Original post by Anonymous
I don’t think you Need proof to figure out someone being dodgey! Does it not sound dodgey to you
Not in the slightest. See the other replies for consensus.
Reply 9
Original post by Anonymous
Guys, I have trust issues I know but
My bf went to a concert with his friend , my bf drives. He live an hour drive from the concert. He called me at 6pm I was asleep I messaged at 9pm instead of calling cus I know the concert would be starting. Anyways when it got to 12:30 I called him so perhaps we could speak when he’s home by then he should be home ( he’s been working since 6am-5pm ) so he defo ain’t going anywhere after the concert. He didn’t answer or reply to my messages from 9pm. It’s now 3am I’ve called him 6 times and messaged. Nothing?! When he left the concert he definitely went on his phone to use gps so why would he not see my message or call?????
Nothing in this world can give me an answer to what he was doing. He is clearly with a female. There’s no reason why he wouldn’t answer.
I’m so upset and devastated. In every relationship I’ve been cheated on. This is the longest one I’ve had 3 years.
I want to break up with him. I don’t need proof this is enough. You don’t ignore your spouse for all your night out. There’s noooo way. The concert finished at 11:30 I checked on the websites for the concert. It take him an hour to get home.
I won’t tolerate this. It’s totally disrespect. I always call him when I go out ALWAYS I know he sleeps early but I still call him no matter what time I get home. I keep crying my mind is running mad and tomorrow I need to go to my friends bday. I always cancel her birthdays I have to go but I’m absolutely defeated.
I’m 28 btw and my bf is 37
My bf went to a concert with his friend , my bf drives. He live an hour drive from the concert. He called me at 6pm I was asleep I messaged at 9pm instead of calling cus I know the concert would be starting. Anyways when it got to 12:30 I called him so perhaps we could speak when he’s home by then he should be home ( he’s been working since 6am-5pm ) so he defo ain’t going anywhere after the concert. He didn’t answer or reply to my messages from 9pm. It’s now 3am I’ve called him 6 times and messaged. Nothing?! When he left the concert he definitely went on his phone to use gps so why would he not see my message or call?????
Nothing in this world can give me an answer to what he was doing. He is clearly with a female. There’s no reason why he wouldn’t answer.
I’m so upset and devastated. In every relationship I’ve been cheated on. This is the longest one I’ve had 3 years.
I want to break up with him. I don’t need proof this is enough. You don’t ignore your spouse for all your night out. There’s noooo way. The concert finished at 11:30 I checked on the websites for the concert. It take him an hour to get home.
I won’t tolerate this. It’s totally disrespect. I always call him when I go out ALWAYS I know he sleeps early but I still call him no matter what time I get home. I keep crying my mind is running mad and tomorrow I need to go to my friends bday. I always cancel her birthdays I have to go but I’m absolutely defeated.
I’m 28 btw and my bf is 37
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