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I'm really scared to have sex with my new boyfriend as the first time I tried with my ex his penis would not fit into me! It was so embarassing. I do become very wet down there but my opening just seems to be really small. It's a struggle to fit two fingers inside.. what can I do? I feel really bad as I feel I am not able to satisfy my boyfriend and I know he wants it so bad! Is there something wrong with me? Also when I stick things up there it's really painful! What were your first times like? I know I am 100% ready to do it but I'm just so scared as I know it's not gonna work! :confused:
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I'm really scared to have sex with my new boyfriend as the first time I tried with my ex his penis would not fit into me! It was so embarassing. I do become very wet down there but my opening just seems to be really small. It's a struggle to fit two fingers inside.. what can I do? I feel really bad as I feel I am not able to satisfy my boyfriend and I know he wants it so bad! Is there something wrong with me? Also when I stick things up there it's really painful! What were your first times like? I know I am 100% ready to do it but I'm just so scared as I know it's not gonna work!
Yeah unfortunately I have this problem all the time with women........................... ...
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The reason he won't fit is because you're uptight.
RELAX.
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http://www.scarleteen.com/article/pi...les_vaginismus
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Probably just nervous, you can pop a baby out of there so I doubt it's any anatomical problem.
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I was worried about that tbh. I was 18 when i lost it and my best friend was into giving me details of her sex life for some reason... anyways she made me sooo worried that it wouldnt fit and everything.
I knew i was ready but being so nervous i knew it would all go wrong.

Just relax its hard when your nervous etc, but it did help.. it wasnt the easiest but relaxing helped aloot xx
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Buy a vibrator

seriously
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As loz_fairy said, buy a vibrator. I doubt you're too small, you're just too tight. Practice with your fingers more, buy some lube and relax. If after several attempts it still doesn't happen, see your GP
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Yeah, it can be extremely painful, you just have to build up to it and stretch gradually... it will be fine eventually. Good luck.
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(Original post by loz_fairy)
Buy a vibrator

seriously
i like how you had to clarify that, seriously
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seriously
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i like how you had to clarify that, seriously
Well, you know how some people respond to these threads...you are one of them
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Well, you know how some people respond to these threads...you are one of them
seriously?
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You just need to stretch it out a bit. It's a lot more common than you think, it's nothing to get worried about.

Oh and, seriously? Sorry, but I really couldn't resist.
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(Original post by Holty-Dave)
seriously?
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I have the same issue with you,Means my boyfriend tried to have sex multiple times but it'll never fit because it hurts so much ! 2 fingers hurts already so badly. We really tried a lot. I tried to relax but at the end it just doesn't work anymore cause it just doesn't fit.
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I think you are all focusing too much on the actual intercourse, work on the foreplay, learn to masturbate and pleasure yourself. Don't plan for sex, just for fun.

Personal I wouldn't start with a vibrator, rather a dildo, the vibrations can be powerful and off-putting if you are not used to it. Don't dive straight in trying to insert it, build up, rub it on your clit, work up and warm up slowly.

If that doesn't help, then maybe a visit to you GP or practice nurse.
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Are you a virgin?
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I'm really scared to have sex with my new boyfriend as the first time I tried with my ex his penis would not fit into me! It was so embarassing. I do become very wet down there but my opening just seems to be really small. It's a struggle to fit two fingers inside.. what can I do? I feel really bad as I feel I am not able to satisfy my boyfriend and I know he wants it so bad! Is there something wrong with me? Also when I stick things up there it's really painful! What were your first times like? I know I am 100% ready to do it but I'm just so scared as I know it's not gonna work! :confused:
Are you a virgin?
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I don't want to scare you, but I had the same problem, along with other female problems. I was diagnosed with uterine cancer. One of the symptoms was pain during intercourse. It was so painful for him to even get a tip inside me. If you have any other symptoms than you need to see a gynecologist.
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