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how to signal to this girl that i do not like her at all

there is a girl in the group of friends i have that i do not consider as my friend, even though she thinks we are, and i want a way to tell her this without being too blunt - she is quite literally the 'we keep her there because we feel bad' friend of the group.

she is really obnoxious in both looks and personality... i know its bad to judge a book by its cover but its hard when someone has no personal hygiene, wears the same outfit 2 weeks in a row of a trampy sports tracksuit and breathes so loud i could hear her from the other side of the class yet has the nerve to make fun of girls who like makeup/wearing crop tops? she has a personality that just screams 'im not like other girls!!' and just sometimes stares at me for no reason.

i avoid her much as i can. when she sits at our table i dont even speak to her or even look her way. i felt bad for her at first, there was even a time when she was paired up for a practical with a boy in the class he was begging to work alone than work with her and his mates were laughing at him :frown: - but what threw me off was when i told one of my teachers after a class that a rlly competitive uni gave me a offer for med and when i walked out she was there listening behind the corner??? then she congratulated me and later on proceeded to complain how since she has low grades she cant apply for medicine and her mother is disappointed etc. one time when i messed up a project the teacher paired me up for she made these faces that were mocking me (i have big lips), but when i confronted her she suddenly was all meek saying 'oh, my bad, i didnt mean anything i was itching my face' and started looking at the floor

help??
Original post by Anonymous
there is a girl in the group of friends i have that i do not consider as my friend, even though she thinks we are, and i want a way to tell her this without being too blunt - she is quite literally the 'we keep her there because we feel bad' friend of the group.
she is really obnoxious in both looks and personality... i know its bad to judge a book by its cover but its hard when someone has no personal hygiene, wears the same outfit 2 weeks in a row of a trampy sports tracksuit and breathes so loud i could hear her from the other side of the class yet has the nerve to make fun of girls who like makeup/wearing crop tops? she has a personality that just screams 'im not like other girls!!' and just sometimes stares at me for no reason.
i avoid her much as i can. when she sits at our table i dont even speak to her or even look her way. i felt bad for her at first, there was even a time when she was paired up for a practical with a boy in the class he was begging to work alone than work with her and his mates were laughing at him :frown: - but what threw me off was when i told one of my teachers after a class that a rlly competitive uni gave me a offer for med and when i walked out she was there listening behind the corner??? then she congratulated me and later on proceeded to complain how since she has low grades she cant apply for medicine and her mother is disappointed etc. one time when i messed up a project the teacher paired me up for she made these faces that were mocking me (i have big lips), but when i confronted her she suddenly was all meek saying 'oh, my bad, i didnt mean anything i was itching my face' and started looking at the floor
help??

I would complete cut off all contact and avoid at all cots or the best thing would be to say it to her face or get one of your mates to do it for you

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