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do I have an attractive body

I am 39–24–36 inches (chest-waist-hips) and have sunkissed skin altho I have stretch marks on my thighs and tits which I'm a little insecure Abt I am 5'7 and love to wear heels (usually 4 inch tall) I have bright blue eyes and blond hair
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I mean I wouldn’t be able to tell without seeing it, but do you find yourself attractive, are you healthy?

Because that’s what matters in my opinion.

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Original post by Talkative Toad
I mean I wouldn’t be able to tell without seeing it, but do you find yourself attractive, are you healthy?
Because that’s what matters in my opinion.

I feel like I'm sumwhat healthy I run and do a lot of sports (bc I enjoy it not for the exercise) and I have a good eating schedule compared to what it used to be
Original post by nineteen-yearold
I feel like I'm sumwhat healthy I run and do a lot of sports (bc I enjoy it not for the exercise) and I have a good eating schedule compared to what it used to be

I mean if you think that you’re attractive then you are most likely attractive 🤷🏾*♀️

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Original post by Talkative Toad
I mean if you think that you’re attractive then you are most likely attractive 🤷🏾*♀️

fair but then I overthink bc there is a lot of girls that are gorgeous and think they aren't pretty at all or ugly girls thinking there are all that
Original post by nineteen-yearold
fair but then I overthink bc there is a lot of girls that are gorgeous and think they aren't pretty at all or ugly girls thinking there are all that

Yeah I can relate

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Original post by nineteen-yearold
I am 39–24–36 inches (chest-waist-hips) and have sunkissed skin altho I have stretch marks on my thighs and tits which I'm a little insecure Abt I am 5'7 and love to wear heels (usually 4 inch tall) I have bright blue eyes and blond hair

Sounds like you have sexy body any man be lucky ti be with you

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Original post by nineteen-yearold
I am 39–24–36 inches (chest-waist-hips) and have sunkissed skin altho I have stretch marks on my thighs and tits which I'm a little insecure Abt I am 5'7 and love to wear heels (usually 4 inch tall) I have bright blue eyes and blond hair

You sound very appealing beautiful girl

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Original post by nineteen-yearold
I am 39–24–36 inches (chest-waist-hips) and have sunkissed skin altho I have stretch marks on my thighs and tits which I'm a little insecure Abt I am 5'7 and love to wear heels (usually 4 inch tall) I have bright blue eyes and blond hair

In my opinion its not for other people to decide. Everyone has their own view on what they find attractive and what 'perfection' is. You need to find what you think makes you attractive. There will be people out there who will find you attractive no matter how you look.
Original post by nineteen-yearold
fair but then I overthink bc there is a lot of girls that are gorgeous and think they aren't pretty at all or ugly girls thinking there are all that

A body that is cared for is attractive when its owner has an engaging personality. It's not attractive to label other girls as 'ugly' or dismiss them for being confident.

Look up Katie Piper and tell me if you'd call her ugly irl and dismiss her for what she has achieved, because she is 'all that'.
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Original post by nineteen-yearold
fair but then I overthink bc there is a lot of girls that are gorgeous and think they aren't pretty at all or ugly girls thinking there are all that

and what I mean by "all that" is when they are being snotty and being bratty bc they think they are better then every one

Reply 11

Original post by Surnia
A body that is cared for is attractive when its owner has an engaging personality. It's not attractive to label other girls as 'ugly' or dismiss them for being confident.
Look up Katie Piper and tell me if you'd call her ugly irl and dismiss her for what she has achieved, because she is 'all that'.

I wasnt trying to dismiss them for being ugly ig I just am annoyed by how a certain group of girls act like they are stunning and model like when they aren't the best

Reply 12

Original post by nineteen-yearold
I am 39–24–36 inches (chest-waist-hips) and have sunkissed skin altho I have stretch marks on my thighs and tits which I'm a little insecure Abt I am 5'7 and love to wear heels (usually 4 inch tall) I have bright blue eyes and blond hair

Beauty is entirely subjective. It truly depends on the person. My girlfriend is 5'11 without shoes and ~100kg (certainly attributes that a number of people would deem as unattractive) and genuinely the most attractive girl I have ever seen; I'm genuinely so happy to call her mine, and I am most certainly physically attracted to her.

In my opinion, if someone refuses to date you because you're not a certain height or weight, or don't have certain measurements, then they are shallow and you'd be better off without them anyway.

Beauty cannot and should not be based off of numbers and metrics. Oftentimes, people with the best appearance have the worst personalities.

Someone who truly loves you won't care if you have strechmarks on your skin, or if you're not a certain bra size, because, at the end of the day, beauty fades with age, but personality doesn't. It's better to find someone that's attracted to you for who you are rather than what you look like :smile:
Original post by nineteen-yearold
I wasnt trying to dismiss them for being ugly ig I just am annoyed by how a certain group of girls act like they are stunning and model like when they aren't the best

What's 'the best'? You're on here asking for affirmation, so what makes you different to them? They have self-confidence, and why not?

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Original post by nineteen-yearold
I am 39–24–36 inches (chest-waist-hips) and have sunkissed skin altho I have stretch marks on my thighs and tits which I'm a little insecure Abt I am 5'7 and love to wear heels (usually 4 inch tall) I have bright blue eyes and blond hair

I like my stretch marks.

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