I’m in love with two girls and not sure what to do

So I’ve been dating 2 girls for the past 2 years. I promise I’m not a bad guy and I genuinely just wanted a relationship. I didn’t mean for this to happen it just sorta happened and I’m now not sure what to do.
Short story is, in 2022 when I was looking for a relationship I went on two first dates with these two girls and they both went really great and we continued dating over the next weeks.. I expected one to just ‘fizzle’ out. But they both continued to go really well and I ended up falling in love with both of them and now I’ve been dating them both for 2 years. I now truly can’t stop thinking about them both and somehow want a three way relationship with them all. However I know that’s never going to work. They found out about each other (mainly because of me I was done with all the hiding and I wanted to come clean and told them) and they both went crazy and said that I have to now pick one of them or neither of them.
I’m not sure what to do. I really dont like comparing people or having to ‘pick’ between to people, I think it’s really disrepectful to have to ‘pick’ between two people but in reality this is what it has come down to.
People say “you should always go for the second girl because you wouldn’t have fallen in love with her if you loved the first girl”… but in this case I met both of them and started dating them at the exact same time.. there is no first or second. Also I truly am in love with them both and not sure what to do.
Girl A:
- I don’t have much in common with her but she has such a sweet personality, I truly love her and being around her makes me so happy. I’m the happiest I’ve ever been when I’m with her. No girl has made me feel so happy. It’s nothing specific she does but just being around her makes me feel this way.
Girl B:
- I have so much in common with her, we studied same subjects, we have the same interests and hobbies, we have similar personalities, we can talk for hours and never run out of things to say. We have engaging conversations, she’s really kind to me and looks after me and respects me. She treats me the best I’ve ever been treated. I could probably spend everyday with her and never get bored. I am also happy with her.
How can I pick? I’m really not sure what to do

Lol playing two at once

When Mohammed_2000 jumps on this thread knowing he is allowed two wives.

So I’ve been dating 2 girls for the past 2 years. I promise I’m not a bad guy and I genuinely just wanted a relationship. I didn’t mean for this to happen it just sorta happened and I’m now not sure what to do.
Short story is, in 2022 when I was looking for a relationship I went on two first dates with these two girls and they both went really great and we continued dating over the next weeks.. I expected one to just ‘fizzle’ out. But they both continued to go really well and I ended up falling in love with both of them and now I’ve been dating them both for 2 years. I now truly can’t stop thinking about them both and somehow want a three way relationship with them all. However I know that’s never going to work. They found out about each other (mainly because of me I was done with all the hiding and I wanted to come clean and told them) and they both went crazy and said that I have to now pick one of them or neither of them.
I’m not sure what to do. I really dont like comparing people or having to ‘pick’ between to people, I think it’s really disrepectful to have to ‘pick’ between two people but in reality this is what it has come down to.
People say “you should always go for the second girl because you wouldn’t have fallen in love with her if you loved the first girl”… but in this case I met both of them and started dating them at the exact same time.. there is no first or second. Also I truly am in love with them both and not sure what to do.
Girl A:
- I don’t have much in common with her but she has such a sweet personality, I truly love her and being around her makes me so happy. I’m the happiest I’ve ever been when I’m with her. No girl has made me feel so happy. It’s nothing specific she does but just being around her makes me feel this way.
Girl B:
- I have so much in common with her, we studied same subjects, we have the same interests and hobbies, we have similar personalities, we can talk for hours and never run out of things to say. We have engaging conversations, she’s really kind to me and looks after me and respects me. She treats me the best I’ve ever been treated. I could probably spend everyday with her and never get bored. I am also happy with her.
How can I pick? I’m really not sure what to do