am i a bad person?
I'm almost about to be 13 and I'm in middle school so my grades are very important. I've always been a good child up until 6th grade where I started having my outbreaks. I started acting out when my mom got divorced with a black Spanish guy. (which is my dad).
After that she started turning weird around "dark people '' and started saying mean stuff about them. 2 years ago I got kicked out of my private school because of my bad behavior so then I started going to public school , which she didn't like because of the "dark people '' my mother had a problem with. My mother is dating a white man who is also racist. in those years when I was in public school I had a crush in 6th grade. Now its up to 7th grade and me and my crush are dating. I didn't told my mother until we were together for 3 weeks and then I wanted to tell her . My mother was all fine with it until she asked me what his race was. So I told her that he is black . Once I told her she stood quiet and then asked me what type of hair he has and I told her what type of hair he has. Once she heard all of these things she took away my phone, In which I've done everything I could to text him or call him , so I bought a phone( that also didn't work)
I feel like the only way for my mother to like my boyfriend is to make her see that he is not a bad person. With all of this, Me and him have been together for a month and a couple of weeks now. I don't want to keep secrets from my mom and I want her to realize that he is not bad just because he's black.
How do I tell my mother that I have a black boyfriend?
After that she started turning weird around "dark people '' and started saying mean stuff about them. 2 years ago I got kicked out of my private school because of my bad behavior so then I started going to public school , which she didn't like because of the "dark people '' my mother had a problem with. My mother is dating a white man who is also racist. in those years when I was in public school I had a crush in 6th grade. Now its up to 7th grade and me and my crush are dating. I didn't told my mother until we were together for 3 weeks and then I wanted to tell her . My mother was all fine with it until she asked me what his race was. So I told her that he is black . Once I told her she stood quiet and then asked me what type of hair he has and I told her what type of hair he has. Once she heard all of these things she took away my phone, In which I've done everything I could to text him or call him , so I bought a phone( that also didn't work)
I feel like the only way for my mother to like my boyfriend is to make her see that he is not a bad person. With all of this, Me and him have been together for a month and a couple of weeks now. I don't want to keep secrets from my mom and I want her to realize that he is not bad just because he's black.
How do I tell my mother that I have a black boyfriend?
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