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Am I a bad person?

So with some of my friends I get really bored/tired of them quickly with not a really solid reason. For example they try too hard or make a hypocritical comment. This then causes me to not want to spend time or talk to them and once its happened the friendship doesn't really go back. I guess you could call it the ick for friends. This doesn't happen with all people though but it has happened with a couple close friends recently and would like to know if other people experience this or how to fix this?
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u just relize those people are just not ur type so move on and find others
thats alwayz happened to me so i get wht u mean
I can relate - I think it's OK to hop around friendship groups is those people aren't right for you anymore!
Original post by Anonymous
So with some of my friends I get really bored/tired of them quickly with not a really solid reason. For example they try too hard or make a hypocritical comment. This then causes me to not want to spend time or talk to them and once its happened the friendship doesn't really go back. I guess you could call it the ick for friends. This doesn't happen with all people though but it has happened with a couple close friends recently and would like to know if other people experience this or how to fix this?

Ive been through this before, everyone naturally out grows their friends and you have just matured and out grown them, it is completely normal. If you dont want spend time with them or talk to them i suggest dropping them. Right people will come around, i dropped all of my friends for this reason (they also were fake). You cant really fix this problem as it is normal and nothing to worry about!! If you dont want to completely drop your friends (bc u wont have any after) then maybe just dont spend time with them after school, but even then you will have enough of them one day and just leave bc i did the same thing! At the end of the day think how you feel

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