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Boyfriend has lots of girl friends?

we’ve been together since feb, but we first got together in november. we broke up a few times due to different reasons and one being that he cheated on me twice with a girl at his school and then some other stuff went down.

we got back together and i feel like it’s every week he’s coming back to me telling me that a girl is hitting on him, for example, there was this one girl who he was “friends with” and she would apparently touch his thigh and liked him. i obviously told him to not be her friend and he said he isnt but he still has her added?
He came back to me today knowing i was already in a really horrible mood and mentioned about how this girl likes him and then he said he was taken and she refused saying she didnt like him. then they proceeded to call for 30 minutes, a facetime call, like what?

im starting to think he’s the one that’s doing something to get these girls to like him. and when i ask him what he’s doing, he blames it on the girls. i totally understand that some girls can want a man thats taken just because they want to, but its like a different girl each week, its getting ridiculous. maybe he’s being flirty but not realising it? he is quite oblivious to things. any opinions on what i should do?

Reply 1

Original post by Anonymous
we’ve been together since feb, but we first got together in november. we broke up a few times due to different reasons and one being that he cheated on me twice with a girl at his school and then some other stuff went down.
we got back together and i feel like it’s every week he’s coming back to me telling me that a girl is hitting on him, for example, there was this one girl who he was “friends with” and she would apparently touch his thigh and liked him. i obviously told him to not be her friend and he said he isnt but he still has her added?
He came back to me today knowing i was already in a really horrible mood and mentioned about how this girl likes him and then he said he was taken and she refused saying she didnt like him. then they proceeded to call for 30 minutes, a facetime call, like what?
im starting to think he’s the one that’s doing something to get these girls to like him. and when i ask him what he’s doing, he blames it on the girls. i totally understand that some girls can want a man thats taken just because they want to, but its like a different girl each week, its getting ridiculous. maybe he’s being flirty but not realising it? he is quite oblivious to things. any opinions on what i should do?

You should just realise that this is just Guna be a fling it’s not going to go far
Should have dumped him the first time he cheated. Don't be a doormat and let him get away with it twice; end it now.

Reply 3

Original post by Anonymous
we’ve been together since feb, but we first got together in november. we broke up a few times due to different reasons and one being that he cheated on me twice with a girl at his school and then some other stuff went down.
we got back together and i feel like it’s every week he’s coming back to me telling me that a girl is hitting on him, for example, there was this one girl who he was “friends with” and she would apparently touch his thigh and liked him. i obviously told him to not be her friend and he said he isnt but he still has her added?
He came back to me today knowing i was already in a really horrible mood and mentioned about how this girl likes him and then he said he was taken and she refused saying she didnt like him. then they proceeded to call for 30 minutes, a facetime call, like what?
im starting to think he’s the one that’s doing something to get these girls to like him. and when i ask him what he’s doing, he blames it on the girls. i totally understand that some girls can want a man thats taken just because they want to, but its like a different girl each week, its getting ridiculous. maybe he’s being flirty but not realising it? he is quite oblivious to things. any opinions on what i should do?


Girlie… you deserve better, he isn’t gonna learn his lesson when he is doing things behind your back, and the fact that he cheated on you just shows you what kind of character he is, I know it’s going to hurt you a lot when you break up with him or it may not I do not know. But you do not deserve to be spending time with someone who does not value you as a person but also how he makes you question if he’s doing something behind your back.

It’ll get better and you’ll find someone who is right for you 🫶🏽

Reply 4

your relationship is going nowhere. quit while you’re ahead or pay the consequences of letting it drag out longer than it needs to.
he isn’t oblivious at all he knows what he’s doing and i very much doubt all these women actually like him - he wants you to think that though so you can feel jealous and ‘lucky’ to have him.

Reply 5

In 6 months he's cheated twice and keeps trying to get reactions out of you with this wannabe player nonsense.

I think this is one of those 'Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me' deals

Reply 6

Original post by Anonymous
we’ve been together since feb, but we first got together in november. we broke up a few times due to different reasons and one being that he cheated on me twice with a girl at his school and then some other stuff went down.
we got back together and i feel like it’s every week he’s coming back to me telling me that a girl is hitting on him, for example, there was this one girl who he was “friends with” and she would apparently touch his thigh and liked him. i obviously told him to not be her friend and he said he isnt but he still has her added?
He came back to me today knowing i was already in a really horrible mood and mentioned about how this girl likes him and then he said he was taken and she refused saying she didnt like him. then they proceeded to call for 30 minutes, a facetime call, like what?
im starting to think he’s the one that’s doing something to get these girls to like him. and when i ask him what he’s doing, he blames it on the girls. i totally understand that some girls can want a man thats taken just because they want to, but its like a different girl each week, its getting ridiculous. maybe he’s being flirty but not realising it? he is quite oblivious to things. any opinions on what i should do?


Thank you for commenting. He told me that he was going to give that girl food and then he started to defend her whilst insulting me as a way to defend her

that was the wakening call, we’re breaking up rn

Reply 7

Original post by Anonymous
we’ve been together since feb, but we first got together in november. we broke up a few times due to different reasons and one being that he cheated on me twice with a girl at his school and then some other stuff went down.
we got back together and i feel like it’s every week he’s coming back to me telling me that a girl is hitting on him, for example, there was this one girl who he was “friends with” and she would apparently touch his thigh and liked him. i obviously told him to not be her friend and he said he isnt but he still has her added?
He came back to me today knowing i was already in a really horrible mood and mentioned about how this girl likes him and then he said he was taken and she refused saying she didnt like him. then they proceeded to call for 30 minutes, a facetime call, like what?
im starting to think he’s the one that’s doing something to get these girls to like him. and when i ask him what he’s doing, he blames it on the girls. i totally understand that some girls can want a man thats taken just because they want to, but its like a different girl each week, its getting ridiculous. maybe he’s being flirty but not realising it? he is quite oblivious to things. any opinions on what i should do?

Bro is just using and playing you. Waste of space should have got rid of the idiot the first time he cheated on you

Reply 8

Original post by Anonymous
we’ve been together since feb, but we first got together in november. we broke up a few times due to different reasons and one being that he cheated on me twice with a girl at his school and then some other stuff went down.
we got back together and i feel like it’s every week he’s coming back to me telling me that a girl is hitting on him, for example, there was this one girl who he was “friends with” and she would apparently touch his thigh and liked him. i obviously told him to not be her friend and he said he isnt but he still has her added?
He came back to me today knowing i was already in a really horrible mood and mentioned about how this girl likes him and then he said he was taken and she refused saying she didnt like him. then they proceeded to call for 30 minutes, a facetime call, like what?
im starting to think he’s the one that’s doing something to get these girls to like him. and when i ask him what he’s doing, he blames it on the girls. i totally understand that some girls can want a man thats taken just because they want to, but its like a different girl each week, its getting ridiculous. maybe he’s being flirty but not realising it? he is quite oblivious to things. any opinions on what i should do?

He’s probably trying to get a rise out of you, or feels like it is an accomplishment. Either way I’d probably say to break up with him (because if he can cheat once, he would probably do it again). And it’s not really good when they just blame the girls, it just feels bad.
You are much too good for him and deserve to be with someone else!! Xx

Reply 9

Original post by Anonymous
we’ve been together since feb, but we first got together in november. we broke up a few times due to different reasons and one being that he cheated on me twice with a girl at his school and then some other stuff went down.
we got back together and i feel like it’s every week he’s coming back to me telling me that a girl is hitting on him, for example, there was this one girl who he was “friends with” and she would apparently touch his thigh and liked him. i obviously told him to not be her friend and he said he isnt but he still has her added?
He came back to me today knowing i was already in a really horrible mood and mentioned about how this girl likes him and then he said he was taken and she refused saying she didnt like him. then they proceeded to call for 30 minutes, a facetime call, like what?
im starting to think he’s the one that’s doing something to get these girls to like him. and when i ask him what he’s doing, he blames it on the girls. i totally understand that some girls can want a man thats taken just because they want to, but its like a different girl each week, its getting ridiculous. maybe he’s being flirty but not realising it? he is quite oblivious to things. any opinions on what i should do?

If you don't trust him then you probably shouldn't be with him.

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