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I 16 year old and virgin wants to lose my virginity to my 18 year old bf he loves me and i love him his indeed a freanky man and most time when we meet (once a month) his very touch and can't control himself 🥴he said he doesn't like the feeling of CONDOS and has never tryed a pullout method (his a virgin too)😫I AM SCARED OF GETING PREGNANT knowing how strict my parents are and how i dont want a baby at a young age😭even tho i love kids .....i have told him to learn how to control himself but it seems not to work🙂*↕️he gets hard the second he touches my thighs and has difficulty getting it down🥹i dont know wat to do anymore and dont wana get pregnant at the same time.
As the saying goes: no glove, no love! Either he wears a condom or you don't have sex, then you won't get pregnant.

However, I'd seriously suggest no sex, or even a relationship, with someone who is 'freaky'. You are still young and there is no rush to be seriously involved with someone. Anyway, if he's a virgin how does he know that he doesn't like the feel of condoms during sex?

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Original post by Surnia
As the saying goes: no glove, no love! Either he wears a condom or you don't have sex, then you won't get pregnant.
However, I'd seriously suggest no sex, or even a relationship, with someone who is 'freaky'. You are still young and there is no rush to be seriously involved with someone. Anyway, if he's a virgin how does he know that he doesn't like the feel of condoms during sex?


He tried it before but after he had put the condo on i changed my mind then he said i didnt like the feeling of the condo
Original post by Anonymous
He tried it before but after he had put the condo on i changed my mind then he said i didnt like the feeling of the condo

Condom, not condo. And tough if he doesn't like it. If he loves you he will respect you and wear a condom, not put you at risk of pregnancy. Do not let him manipulate you into trying the pull-out method.

How well do you really know him if you only meet once a month? How long have you been together and do you actually go out on dates?

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Original post by Anonymous
I 16 year old and virgin wants to lose my virginity to my 18 year old bf he loves me and i love him his indeed a freanky man and most time when we meet (once a month) his very touch and can't control himself 🥴he said he doesn't like the feeling of CONDOS and has never tryed a pullout method (his a virgin too)😫I AM SCARED OF GETING PREGNANT knowing how strict my parents are and how i dont want a baby at a young age😭even tho i love kids .....i have told him to learn how to control himself but it seems not to work🙂*↕️he gets hard the second he touches my thighs and has difficulty getting it down🥹i dont know wat to do anymore and dont wana get pregnant at the same time.

it is not his disison if you don't want to get pregnant and he wants to **** he needs a condom

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