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Is it wrong as a Bengali

So my girl mate likes me to **** to her on snap is it weird for me to be dirty with her on snap as she does the same ?

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Reply 1
uh, i'm bengali too, just a question tho, are you muslim? Cuz religion is important, and it's Haram in Islam, just saying. It would be fine if you're married but you're not right?
Original post by Anonymous
uh, i'm bengali too, just a question tho, are you muslim? Cuz religion is important, and it's Haram in Islam, just saying. It would be fine if you're married but you're not right?

Yeah, seconded.
Reply 3
Original post by User1236547guy
I can’t help it sending her nude she does the same but iknow it’s wrong but it’s hard not talking dirty with her 👀
how old are you? cuz you could try to get married as soon as possible, ask her father too. It would be better that way tbh, but try to not send pics in the short term until you're married, you'll be a free man then lol
thats another reason why being married early is better
Reply 4
Original post by Anonymous
how old are you? cuz you could try to get married as soon as possible, ask her father too. It would be better that way tbh, but try to not send pics in the short term until you're married, you'll be a free man then lol
thats another reason why being married early is better

No we are engaged but currently living in our own home until I get my permanent place , but she has a verry high sex drive
Reply 5
Original post by Anonymous
how old are you? cuz you could try to get married as soon as possible, ask her father too. It would be better that way tbh, but try to not send pics in the short term until you're married, you'll be a free man then lol
thats another reason why being married early is better

I’m 25 , she’s 23 but is it wrong if I show her pics of my dic* to her on Snapchat as she enjoyes it but idk if that is weird but we are married though well engaged
Reply 6
Original post by Anonymous
I’m 25 , she’s 23 but is it wrong if I show her pics of my dic* to her on Snapchat as she enjoyes it but idk if that is weird but we are married though well engaged

Did the wedding happen yet though? I'd advise to not send pics to her tbh and for her to not send pics to u cuz marriage and sex are meant to be intimate. You both won't have as much pleasure as you would if you didn't exchange pics. Marry her and have children and that's fine. Inshallah all goes well for you brother, may Allah bless you.
Reply 7
Original post by Anonymous
Did the wedding happen yet though? I'd advise to not send pics to her tbh and for her to not send pics to u cuz marriage and sex are meant to be intimate. You both won't have as much pleasure as you would if you didn't exchange pics. Marry her and have children and that's fine. Inshallah all goes well for you brother, may Allah bless you.

So we had our nikha already and walima in few months but as long as we’re married is it problem with me sending her my nude ?
Reply 8
Original post by Anonymous
So we had our nikha already and walima in few months but as long as we’re married is it problem with me sending her my nude ?

Nope, I don't see an issue with that as long as you're married. Stay safe online though and make sure no one is watching/aware other than you and your wife. May Allah bless the 2 of you!

https://islamqa.info/en/answers/4807/is-phone-sex-between-spouses-allowed

Nikah Mubarak! “May Allah bless you, and shower His blessings upon you, and join you together in goodness.”
Reply 9
Original post by Anonymous
So we had our nikha already and walima in few months but as long as we’re married is it problem with me sending her my nude ?

nah
its better to wait until marriage cauze god forbid u can not get married and break of engagement so better to wait to get married
i wish u guys a happy wedding, inshallah
Original post by Anonymous
So my girl mate likes me to **** to her on snap is it weird for me to be dirty with her on snap as she does the same ?

zina is haram
Reply 11
Original post by Anonymous
zina is haram

I’m engaged with her
Reply 12
Original post by JF ZAK
nah
its better to wait until marriage cauze god forbid u can not get married and break of engagement so better to wait to get married
i wish u guys a happy wedding, inshallah
How old are you if you don’t mind me asking ? And are you Bengali girl?
Reply 13
Original post by Anonymous
how old are you? cuz you could try to get married as soon as possible, ask her father too. It would be better that way tbh, but try to not send pics in the short term until you're married, you'll be a free man then lol
thats another reason why being married early is better

Is it allowed to *** in your wife mouth is that permissible?
Original post by Anonymous
Is it allowed to *** in your wife mouth is that permissible?

okay so basically whatever fantasies you have that are intimate is permissible up to an extent. None of us here are knowledgeable enough to say so, so search it up on google and other questions you have too, for a quick response. You could do that but its better from an Islamic point of view to keep that private lol.
Reply 15
Original post by Anonymous
okay so basically whatever fantasies you have that are intimate is permissible up to an extent. None of us here are knowledgeable enough to say so, so search it up on google and other questions you have too, for a quick response. You could do that but its better from an Islamic point of view to keep that private lol.

Sorry if I seemed annoying 👀
Reply 16
Original post by Anonymous
So my girl mate likes me to **** to her on snap is it weird for me to be dirty with her on snap as she does the same ?

what does the **** mean
Reply 17
Original post by meowmeoww
what does the **** mean

Wankin*?
Reply 18
Original post by anonymous
How old are you if you don’t mind me asking ? And are you Bengali girl?

im not bengali
and im 15
i dont mind answering so im gonna ask question
y is it important
(edited 10 months ago)
Reply 19
Original post by Anonymous
okay so basically whatever fantasies you have that are intimate is permissible up to an extent. None of us here are knowledgeable enough to say so, so search it up on google and other questions you have too, for a quick response. You could do that but its better from an Islamic point of view to keep that private lol.

it okay
but it macrooh
due to u saying qur'an and allah name using ur tongue
so some say u shouldnt but it depends if u want to

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