AITA or is it them? or am i overthinking it?

so i have this friend at uni and we are on the same course and get along really well and have stuff in common and have mainly positive feelings. but sometimes she annoys me a little bit- i mean i feel like thats with all people, noone is perfect and neither am i. i am just a little unsure at the moment.
so one of the things she does that is kind of annoying is that she name drops and brags and boasts about these posh places she has had food at. she also puts it all over her social media etc. she goes with her mum and stuff and always going out and then telling the world about it. i personally never liked braggers and boasters so it kind of annoys me a little. the bit of irony is tho is that she is not from a lets say 'high class' background anyway and it is basically seeming like she is overcompensating and giving a fake image. this is coupled with her style, like OK i am no fashion police or anything so don't really care but i find it a little odd how she doesnt dress up but wears the same old clothes that are so out of fashion and stuff from 4-5 years ago and yet goes to these posh places in them. and these places for some reason, got no dress code. surely if you would want to seem 'high class' you would dress the part too?
leads me onto my next point. she is very scruffy, to say the least. i mean i find it a little bamboozling how a female in this day and age doesnt care about her appearance. her hair is kind of messy and her clothes as i say are yknow. maybe she is happy with herself, i got no issue with that but it seems strange. she literally doesn't care or do anything.
And then she always makes a point of asking me or making a comment about my clothes and outfits (i like to wear makeup, dress up and look always nice and presentable) and she asks why and stuff.
Same with the going out thing, i mean i think in general noone has this habit of going out every weekend and so she asks me and other people and then is like "no offense or anything, so do your parents and your family not go anywhere or something." and i tell her that i am the youngest, my oldest sibling is 32 and 2 of them already moved out and my parents go on holiday by themselves coz they have done their parenting after 30 years so want to spend time by themselves for once. And then she is like "oh my parents could never".
Also the fact she got no concept of money whatsoever. I explain that i use my own money i earn from my part time job and use that and need to get another job because i am running out and she has never had a job and i ask her if she will get one and its "oh its stressful" or something like that. She is very loose with money whereas i am careful with my money.
She also kind of criticises my makeup. She is like oh i could never do my makeup everyday, oh makeup is boring etc etc etc. I mean it sounds like a bit of a criticism coz i do like doing my makeup and dressing up.
We also have very differing views. She is very very very woke and i am somewhat woke but also realistic, like i dont go for certain things or think that way and stuff.
I like kind of trad things so like to yknow dress up and connect with my feminine energy and she kind of criticises that and goes on a bit of a feminist rant to me about me getting into the patriarchy or something idk.
And lastly, she has ridiculously high standards in guys. LIKE that is none of my business or anything but its kind of hypocritical. she expects a guy to be this, this and this but isn't that herself.
I remember this 1 time we were having food and this waiter and I had a thing happening and he kept on looking at me and stuff etc etc and i told her that and she pulled a face, laughing and being like oh its your imagination (when it wasnt), he was probably looking at me etc etc etc. It's like girly banter cannot happen.
She is also very insistent on me being her 'best friend' and to be honest, we havent even known each other for a year and she is not my best friend. so i dont call her it. we are not best friends. i am also my own person very much so and don't like an overly clingy person sometimes (sounds bad but yk).
she is nice and all and a great person just dont know how to feel about those certain things above ://.
AITA or them? or am i overthinking it?