The Student Room Group

Disgusting girls at school

I’m in y11 and there are a group of absolutely horrible girls who basically prey on quiet kids. They moan random peoples names out loud (they’ve done it to me too), basically sexually harassed a few of my friends who are such nice people that absolutely do not deserve it. They said disgusting sexual things about them and boys in our tutorial group, and laughed like cows afterwards. It’s literally the end of y11 and they are the only ones acting so atrociously.

Today one of them literally asked a substitute teacher for his name and then moaned it out loud, I can’t even fathom why someone would do that. This one specifically I loathe the most, as she confronted me once about laughing about something in a serious assembly (was completely unrelated) when she and her friend were being even more disrespectful. She also just says my name out loud sometimes. It’s the kind of thing where she knows I’m not going to reply and she takes genuine pleasure out of it. It infuriates me to the point of wanting to cry.

Again today she threw her shoe at one of my friends and it hit her, and she did the whole fake apology abt how it was supposed to go behind her and her friends were all cackling. They are just so evil it’s unbelievable. They were all also just being generally jarring shouting things in the quiet classroom and picking on people.

I don’t know what to do about it because this situation absolutely infuriates me so so much. If I tell a teacher then they will 100% know it was me and I know I wouldn’t hear the end of it. They are just bullies who have never been humbled by anyone, and absolutely NO ONE stands up to them. I would love to but I just know what would happen after, these girls would ostracize me and I’d be a walking joke.

I’m not a violent person but they are the type of ppl who you just want walk up to and clock in the face, because they absolutely deserve it,if you get what I mean. Any advice?
Reply 1
Id say the best thing to do is to report them even though you may not want to lol and if it comes to it please give them a good punch 😭
id say when it happens again, stand up to them! you might thunk they’e gojng to ostracise you but really, a lot of people will be glad you did. don’t hit them or anything, just make them realise that what they’e doing is disgusting behaviour. if it still continues, them report them.
Reply 3
Hi there, that situation sounds horrific and unfortunately, there are people like that everywhere.
I'm in year 11 and what I can say is that there's only a few more weeks of exams, then, I'm guessing, you'll all be pursuing different further education.
What helps me when met with people like that is knowing that my future will almost 100% be better than theirs, they can mess around all they want in high school, but they will massively struggle in the real world when they realise the stuff they did at school is punishable by law (the harassment etc.).
I know it's tough, and I've not had quite the same experience as you, but if you can, leave it. Act like they don't exist, they do this stuff for attention, if you ignore them or just roll your eyes, or continue past them like they don't exist, they get annoyed that you're not reacting, because that's all they want.
Yes, if you feel confident, stand up to them, but like I said, there's only a few weeks left, and leaving without any drama being caused might be better.
Like I said, that does sound like an awful situation with a load of horrid people, but focus on yourself, because hopefully one day you'll be living a good life while they realise life isn't all jokes and screeching with laughter when they have to work and are in the 'real world'.
Sometimes justice is slow, but I always believe it catches up with people. :smile:
Original post by Anonymous
I’m in y11 and there are a group of absolutely horrible girls who basically prey on quiet kids. They moan random peoples names out loud (they’ve done it to me too), basically sexually harassed a few of my friends who are such nice people that absolutely do not deserve it. They said disgusting sexual things about them and boys in our tutorial group, and laughed like cows afterwards. It’s literally the end of y11 and they are the only ones acting so atrociously.
Today one of them literally asked a substitute teacher for his name and then moaned it out loud, I can’t even fathom why someone would do that. This one specifically I loathe the most, as she confronted me once about laughing about something in a serious assembly (was completely unrelated) when she and her friend were being even more disrespectful. She also just says my name out loud sometimes. It’s the kind of thing where she knows I’m not going to reply and she takes genuine pleasure out of it. It infuriates me to the point of wanting to cry.
Again today she threw her shoe at one of my friends and it hit her, and she did the whole fake apology abt how it was supposed to go behind her and her friends were all cackling. They are just so evil it’s unbelievable. They were all also just being generally jarring shouting things in the quiet classroom and picking on people.
I don’t know what to do about it because this situation absolutely infuriates me so so much. If I tell a teacher then they will 100% know it was me and I know I wouldn’t hear the end of it. They are just bullies who have never been humbled by anyone, and absolutely NO ONE stands up to them. I would love to but I just know what would happen after, these girls would ostracize me and I’d be a walking joke.
I’m not a violent person but they are the type of ppl who you just want walk up to and clock in the face, because they absolutely deserve it,if you get what I mean. Any advice?


Involve your parents, your teacher aren't going to do anything trust me, same stuff happens at an all boys school
Reply 5
I relate with U, I had to punch a girl in the face

Quick Reply