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Asked her out via socials hut hasnt read it yet

Asked out my friend from work but I'm getting cold feet 😂. It's not been that long (10 hours?) But damn, real tempting to delete that **** right about now. Can't ask her in person because we don't work together anymore. Technically you can still read the message when you get the notification anyway so she may have seen it. Don't want to make things weird but I don't want to delete if she saw it via notification.

Should I delete it?

Edit - Just an anxious rant tbf😌
(edited 11 months ago)

Reply 1

Sorry to say but if it's been over 10 hours with no reply, high chance is she probably saw the notification and is just ghosting you. Either that or she's a rare breed of person who doesn't use their phone much.

Reply 2

Don’t delete it, it’s very likely she’s seen it and it doesn’t help. Asking out by messaging is bad news as the wait for a reply is excruciating
(edited 11 months ago)

Reply 3

Yeah sorry she’s definitely seen it and probably doesn’t feel the same or she would’ve replied by now. Don’t delete it though as i’m sure she’ll respond either way, she’s probably thinking up how to reply.

Reply 4

Asking out as in like a partner ? Or on a date ?

Reply 5

Are you sure that social account is her? Got a friend in the past used another friend's account just for fun... End up that was an account wasn't the actual person. Imagine texting her friend the whole time instead of her.

Reply 6

Never ask out over text or media .. Always ask over phone or in person

Reply 7

Original post by 90Ninety
Never ask out over text or media .. Always ask over phone or in person

This. It never works out, ever.

Reply 8

Original post by Junxed69
Asked out my friend from work but I'm getting cold feet 😂. It's not been that long (10 hours?) But damn, real tempting to delete that **** right about now. Can't ask her in person because we don't work together anymore. Technically you can still read the message when you get the notification anyway so she may have seen it. Don't want to make things weird but I don't want to delete if she saw it via notification.
Should I delete it?
Edit - Just an anxious rant tbf😌

What happened in the end?

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