I (f18) have my exams so me and my bf (m17) haven't seen each other for 2 weeks n our relationship has felt off. we have only been dating for 1.5 months.
i recently saw that he's been talking with other people on a discord group-chat (i had his login) saying outrageous sexual related things to other people.
also saying how a girls height was 174cm was 'perfect height' when i'm 150cm.
girl- i'm gonna tie u up and * u
him- my turn
him- id never let u touch me
girl- me neither
him- u cant stop me
Is this considered cheating? I dont even know bc it probably is i just would NEVER expect someone like him to do that. its like he had a different personality on there that i cant believe. there's also much more examples but i'm just trying to justify all of this and i don't know why. He's begging for me not to leave him and saying he doesn't remember saying all of it and the msgs nothing he was just trying to get a reaction and fit in with them.
i have a thing for forgiving exes and idk how to stop doing it, i always see how they could possibly change. He hasn't treated me that well but i feel like im just staying because he's the only person i have to hang out with and do normal activities with
