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Boyfriend keeps asking me to take off my clothes

First of all my boyfriend is a great guy. He’s so loving and funny and we have the best conversations. But every time I wear anything he will ask me to take it off. And I understand that maybe he would think that but I didn’t think he would ask me every time I see him whether it’s in person or on the phone. We have been together for a year and a half now and it’s been constant for about a year. I have told him before I don’t like it but he hasn’t stopped. What do I do?

Reply 1

Original post by Anonymous
First of all my boyfriend is a great guy. He’s so loving and funny and we have the best conversations. But every time I wear anything he will ask me to take it off. And I understand that maybe he would think that but I didn’t think he would ask me every time I see him whether it’s in person or on the phone. We have been together for a year and a half now and it’s been constant for about a year. I have told him before I don’t like it but he hasn’t stopped. What do I do?
"But every time I wear anything he will ask me to take it off."

Anything at all??? Even when you're in public??? Sounds a little over the top to me...

Reply 2

Original post by Anonymous
First of all my boyfriend is a great guy. He’s so loving and funny and we have the best conversations. But every time I wear anything he will ask me to take it off. And I understand that maybe he would think that but I didn’t think he would ask me every time I see him whether it’s in person or on the phone. We have been together for a year and a half now and it’s been constant for about a year. I have told him before I don’t like it but he hasn’t stopped. What do I do?

Is this in public too…😳

Reply 3

Just to say it’s not in public 🤦*♀️ if we are out somewhere he will always say to me oh you should take that off when we get home or whatever

Reply 4

Original post by Anonymous
First of all my boyfriend is a great guy. He’s so loving and funny and we have the best conversations. But every time I wear anything he will ask me to take it off. And I understand that maybe he would think that but I didn’t think he would ask me every time I see him whether it’s in person or on the phone. We have been together for a year and a half now and it’s been constant for about a year. I have told him before I don’t like it but he hasn’t stopped. What do I do?

I guess my first question would be, has he seen you without clothes already ?. Kind of odd ,unless he hasnt and is desperate to see ?.

Reply 5

Original post by anonymouse2024
I guess my first question would be, has he seen you without clothes already ?. Kind of odd ,unless he hasnt and is desperate to see ?.

Yeah he has but now it’s constant asking

Reply 6

Original post by Anonymous
Yeah he has but now it’s constant asking

Strange, especially if you have made clear you don't like him to keep asking. Shows what an idiot he is. I would tell him if he asks you one more time that you are breaking up with him.

Reply 7

Original post by Anonymous
First of all my boyfriend is a great guy. He’s so loving and funny and we have the best conversations. But every time I wear anything he will ask me to take it off. And I understand that maybe he would think that but I didn’t think he would ask me every time I see him whether it’s in person or on the phone. We have been together for a year and a half now and it’s been constant for about a year. I have told him before I don’t like it but he hasn’t stopped. What do I do?

are you saying your not ready for sex yet?

Reply 8

This is absolutely mental and you are literally being harassed run away from that predator
Original post by Anonymous
First of all my boyfriend is a great guy. He’s so loving and funny and we have the best conversations. But every time I wear anything he will ask me to take it off. And I understand that maybe he would think that but I didn’t think he would ask me every time I see him whether it’s in person or on the phone. We have been together for a year and a half now and it’s been constant for about a year. I have told him before I don’t like it but he hasn’t stopped. What do I do?

"I've asked you not to do this before but you keep persisting with it. It's making me really uncomfortable to the point where it's a dealbreaker to me. Will you stop?".

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