How often do you orgasm when you make love to the man or men in your life?
How often do you have more than one orgasm during a love making session?
How often do you have strong orgasms?
A high proportion of men are poor to mediocre at making love with women.
Learning how to make love competently to a woman is about as challenging as learning to drive a manual car.
But far too many men never do it. Part of the reason being poor attitudes. Part of the reason being a lack of training. Men don't go to Making Love Instructors to learn how to be competent with women.
For women with competent lovers, there's no pretence at all about how much they enjoy sex. And how much they crave it when it they're not getting it. For them, sex is the joint most enjoyable thing in their lives. A beautiful act that combines physical, emotional, spiritual pleasure.
The "I've got a headache" is a stupid old fashioned cliche. A woman with a headache is about as likely to crave (competent) sex as she is to not want sex. Because the sex provides a distraction and the orgasm helps to relieve the tension of a headache. There can be a don't touch me headache and there can be a horny headache.