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İ feel self-conscious about my virginity

Hello i am 17 years old and about to graduate highschool, i focused on my studies and myself with my friends but did not have any girlfriend, in fact i did not have any romantic interest to anybody there, the last i flirted someone with when i was in middle school so i am inexperinced at bed etc.. stuff

So when i look at forum i see people say smthg like being virgin is a total turnoff to women they want somebody who has experince at bed which makes me feel bad about myself.. even hooking up came across my mind to be experinced if i have a gf in future

İs there smthg wrong with me?

Could someone give me advice about this?

Reply 1

I am an 18 yr old girl and I would say that you absolutely don't need to have experience, neither do I. I think we're young and if you want to in the future, I'm sure girls will not be put off, and if you don't wish to in the near future like me that's also fine. Absolutely don't feel pressured into anything, it is always better to listen to your heart in these situations.

Reply 2

Original post by vectorlanddd
Hello i am 17 years old and about to graduate highschool, i focused on my studies and myself with my friends but did not have any girlfriend, in fact i did not have any romantic interest to anybody there, the last i flirted someone with when i was in middle school so i am inexperinced at bed etc.. stuff
So when i look at forum i see people say smthg like being virgin is a total turnoff to women they want somebody who has experince at bed which makes me feel bad about myself.. even hooking up came across my mind to be experinced if i have a gf in future
İs there smthg wrong with me?
Could someone give me advice about this?
I am a 16 years old (virgin) , and I am telling you there's nothing wrong with you. Being a virgin is fine.
Everybody is a virgin until they have experience in bed. Just sayin'...

Reply 4

Original post by vectorlanddd
Hello i am 17 years old and about to graduate highschool, i focused on my studies and myself with my friends but did not have any girlfriend, in fact i did not have any romantic interest to anybody there, the last i flirted someone with when i was in middle school so i am inexperinced at bed etc.. stuff
So when i look at forum i see people say smthg like being virgin is a total turnoff to women they want somebody who has experince at bed which makes me feel bad about myself.. even hooking up came across my mind to be experinced if i have a gf in future
İs there smthg wrong with me?
Could someone give me advice about this?

Being a virgin is a wonderful thing.Your first time can create a big impact on future experiences.It should be a wonderful experience with someone who is very special. Become educated about your body and start thinking about your morals & values. Your virginity is once so make it count.I'll be sending my well wishes your way.

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