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How would u feel if ur partner kissed (peck) and cuddled with s1 before meeting you? And they’re not even tgt but they did those ..?

I’m tryna forget bout it but she sometimes bring it up which make me overthink about it over and over again

Can’t get it out of my head, can’t get over it.

Anyone can help? Please
Most people you are with in your life will have been with someone else before you, especially as you get older. Try not to worry about it, and if it makes you uncomfortable try talk to her about it. Let her know that it doesn’t feel good to you when she brings it up, and hopefully she will understand. Don’t let this ruin your relationship, it is totally normal and doesn’t mean that she loves you any less just because you aren’t her first.
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Most people you are with in your life will have been with someone else before you, especially as you get older. Try not to worry about it, and if it makes you uncomfortable try talk to her about it. Let her know that it doesn’t feel good to you when she brings it up, and hopefully she will understand. Don’t let this ruin your relationship, it is totally normal and doesn’t mean that she loves you any less just because you aren’t her first.


I guess the reason Im worried about this maybe bcuz im clean, I’ve never interacted with s1 like she did..😕
Just know that’s in the past, that’s not a lot to have done to be honest. I’m not sure how old you are, but as most people hit house party ages around 16-18, and in clubbing, kissing is quite a common and thought of as nothing. A lot of girls even kiss each other as friends. But it is true, most people have been with someone before you and as you get more partners in life you’d be the same. If they are over then that’s the main thing. The last person is in the past and is staying there. You’re the current.

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