The way BTEC grades work is that each unit is awarded points depending on it size (in guided learning hours - GLH), your grade, and your mark in the case of external (examined) units. They then total the points and map it to an overall grade. So let's run through those units to see what each is worth in terms of points.
Unit 1: A pass in an 90 GLH external unit earns you between 9 and 14 points, depending on the mark. As you were "1 one mark off Merit" it'll be
14 points.
Unit 2: A distinction in a 90 GLH internal unit earns you
24 points.
Unit 3: A merit in a 120 GLH external unit earns you between 20 and 31 points. You provide no indication as to your mark, so let's
assume 20 points.
Unit 4: A distinction in a 90 GLH internal unit earns you
24 points.
Unit 5: A pass in a 120 GLH external unit earns you between 12 and 19 points. You say "unit 5 pass 16 marks", which seems wrong given then in the minimum mark for a pass was 28 in June 2023 and January 2024 and was 34 back in January 2023. I'm therefore going to
assume 12 marks (a bare minimum pass).
Unit 6: A merit in a 90 GLH internal unit earns you
15 points.
Unit 7: A pass in a 120 GLH external unit earns you between 12 and 19 points. You say "unit 7 pass 18 mark", which is was a little above the pass boundary in January 2023, June 2023 and January 2024. Without knowing when you took this exam, I can't be precise, but this means you'd have earned
approximately 13 points.
Unit 8: A distinction in a 60 GLH internal unit earns you
16 points.
Unit 10: A distinction in a 60 GLH internal unit earns you
16 points.
Unit 12: A distinction in a 60 GLH internal unit earns you
16 points.
Unit 13: A distinction in a 60 GLH internal unit earns you
16 points.
Unit 14: An
assumed distinction in a 60 GLH internal unit earns you
16 points.
Unit 21: A distinction in a 60 GLH internal unit earns you
16 points.
I make that
total 218 points. For a
DDD you need
216 points, so it looks like you've probably
just made it.

Note, however, that there is some uncertainly. For more clarity could you please:
1. Provide a mark for Unit 3.
2. Provide the month and year when you took the Unit 3 exam (as the grade boundaries move around a little).
3. Double check your Unit 5 mark. You say "unit 5 pass 16 marks" but that doesn't align with any of the last three sets of grade boundaries.
4. Provide the month and year when you took the Unit 5 exam.
5. Provide the month and year when you took the Unit 7 exam.