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Feel so alone at school.
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I have no friends at school, I did havea nice group of girls but in the last few months they've completely been ignoring me. For instance not saying hello, organising parties without me, going to cinemas without me, ditching me at lunchtime and all that. It really upset me and I'm in year 13 so only have a few more months left so its hard to find a new group of friends because they are already formed.
So I hate my time at school, I am alone at breaktime and often find myself just with them at lunch but then they need to talk in "private" and walk off.
This all drew me to being worried and just so upset, I am a loner at school.
Prom tickets go on sale soon (proms in july) but everyone is going to get a limo there, shall I even bother travelling to central ldn by myself for the prom, because no one is going to want me in their limo?
I feel so depressed and I can't wait until uni, but any advice about how to deal with them?
xx
I have no friends at school, I did havea nice group of girls but in the last few months they've completely been ignoring me. For instance not saying hello, organising parties without me, going to cinemas without me, ditching me at lunchtime and all that. It really upset me and I'm in year 13 so only have a few more months left so its hard to find a new group of friends because they are already formed.
So I hate my time at school, I am alone at breaktime and often find myself just with them at lunch but then they need to talk in "private" and walk off.
This all drew me to being worried and just so upset, I am a loner at school.
Prom tickets go on sale soon (proms in july) but everyone is going to get a limo there, shall I even bother travelling to central ldn by myself for the prom, because no one is going to want me in their limo?
I feel so depressed and I can't wait until uni, but any advice about how to deal with them?
xx
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They are doing it for attention from you. Showing your upset by it all means they have won, all rather cliche but tis true I'm afraid. Girls never grow up. I've been with my group of friends for three years and they still do this.
Pinklemonade-xo
They are doing it for attention from you. Showing your upset by it all means they have won, all rather cliche but tis true I'm afraid. Girls never grow up. I've been with my group of friends for three years and they still do this.
Yeah I guess that is true, its just so horrible going to school and being alone.
What about prom? Should I just not go..
Anonymous
Yeah I guess that is true, its just so horrible going to school and being alone.
What about prom? Should I just not go..
What about prom? Should I just not go..
Sounds like you don't really want to go. That being the case - don't bother. Unless, of course, there's a guy there waiting for you!
fL3X
You don't need friends since your in year 13. Just focus on ur studies :P, you wont need them next year
i hope this is true
I know how feel OP I moved schools a lot, and at one school I was really popular and at the other I had no friends hardly. Last one I was at for sixthform was a bitchy all girls school, and it was horrid. But you're in year 13 thank god, not that much longer to go now. Focus on year A-levels, they're much more important. I often went to revise in my breaks if people were being lame. Once you get good grades, you can go to uni ad a have whale of a time 
I moved schools a lot, and at one school I was really popular and at the other I had no friends hardly. Last one I was at for sixthform was a bitchy all girls school, and it was horrid. But you're in year 13 thank god, not that much longer to go now. Focus on year A-levels, they're much more important. I often went to revise in my breaks if people were being lame. Once you get good grades, you can go to uni ad a have whale of a time joey11223
did something happen to make them change their behaviour towards you?
regardless I'd rescue you to if I had room in my house, wait until the loft conversion.
regardless I'd rescue you to if I had room in my house, wait until the loft conversion.Aww thats well sweet!
No it was all of a sudden. I think its because I used to be close friends with this girl who is also friends with them, but as I became closer to the other group the girl started telling them that I said all this crap about them.
I'm just so annoyed why are they doing this, its so horrible just going to school.
I should just not bother
Fillette
I know how feel OP I moved schools a lot, and at one school I was really popular and at the other I had no friends hardly. Last one I was at for sixthform was a bitchy all girls school, and it was horrid. But you're in year 13 thank god, not that much longer to go now. Focus on year A-levels, they're much more important. I often went to revise in my breaks if people were being lame. Once you get good grades, you can go to uni ad a have whale of a time
I moved schools a lot, and at one school I was really popular and at the other I had no friends hardly. Last one I was at for sixthform was a bitchy all girls school, and it was horrid. But you're in year 13 thank god, not that much longer to go now. Focus on year A-levels, they're much more important. I often went to revise in my breaks if people were being lame. Once you get good grades, you can go to uni ad a have whale of a time Thats true, I am trying to improve my grades because last year I didn';t do too well and this year I want to do better.I just dont wanna go to school anymore, I'm happier at home.
Anonymous
because no one is going to want me in their limo?
because no one is going to want me in their limo?
How do you know?
Anonymous Thats true, I am trying to improve my grades because last year I didn';t do too well and this year I want to do better.
I just dont wanna go to school anymore, I'm happier at home.
Thats true, I am trying to improve my grades because last year I didn';t do too well and this year I want to do better.I just dont wanna go to school anymore, I'm happier at home.
Good for you- then focus on that! Seriously, A-levels are really really important and you shouldn't let silly people like that get in the way of you achieving your goals
Anonymous
Aww thats well sweet!
No it was all of a sudden. I think its because I used to be close friends with this girl who is also friends with them, but as I became closer to the other group the girl started telling them that I said all this crap about them.
I'm just so annoyed why are they doing this, its so horrible just going to school.
I should just not bother
No it was all of a sudden. I think its because I used to be close friends with this girl who is also friends with them, but as I became closer to the other group the girl started telling them that I said all this crap about them.
I'm just so annoyed why are they doing this, its so horrible just going to school.
I should just not bother
Had something similar happen to me, but I had almost 3 years left at my school. I went through with it and found new and better friends at uni.
If you need someone to listen and talk to, you know where to find us.
This sounds super lame saying this over the internet but thank you, you guys are better people than the people at school are!
They are stupid and immature but its a bit irritating when you hear them backchatting about me saying how bad I am and then I look over and they're all laughing and having fun and I'm there with a french textbook
They are stupid and immature but its a bit irritating when you hear them backchatting about me saying how bad I am and then I look over and they're all laughing and having fun and I'm there with a french textbook
im so sorry to hear that. it sounds as though they don't deserve to have u in their group as they are acting so childish.
i do know what ur goin through, all of my close friends left 4 college n i was totally alone in my 2nd year of 6th form. i noticed that people i was close with started to change n form other groups. i was really depressd n i almost left because of it but my bro convinced me to stay on n i focused on my work n got the grades that i wanted. i didnt go to my prom but i hung out with a couple of my friends instead. it doesn't sound like a nite 2 remember n it may sound boring but for me it was the best thing to do.
i do know what ur goin through, all of my close friends left 4 college n i was totally alone in my 2nd year of 6th form. i noticed that people i was close with started to change n form other groups. i was really depressd n i almost left because of it but my bro convinced me to stay on n i focused on my work n got the grades that i wanted. i didnt go to my prom but i hung out with a couple of my friends instead. it doesn't sound like a nite 2 remember n it may sound boring but for me it was the best thing to do.
I doubt the prom will be all it's cracked up to be. Mine was fun and everything, but it's not something i'll think about for the rest of my life or anything.
**** them, study, get the grades you need and move on with your life..
You'll meet much better friends when you go to uni or college or whatever you do.
**** them, study, get the grades you need and move on with your life.
.You'll meet much better friends when you go to uni or college or whatever you do.
Mex
Something similar happened to me, but I'm sad to say I didn't handle it well. Try talking to them and saying that there's obviously something wrong and what have you done? In a nice way
I did, I was like is there anything up with us?
And they actually laughed in my face and then said "no" and walked off
Aww. To be honest they don't sound like very nice people; or at least, with nasty attitudes if they didn't even ask you face to face if what they think is true. I know you've said that all the friendship groups have already formed, but isn't there anyone else that you're on friendly terms with? If all else fails, bring a book or some work that you need to be getting on with and just focus on that. Tried and tested strategy by yours truly. :3
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