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27M no girlfriend

Hi guys 27 no girlfriend lately I been thinking and I don’t understand why u have bot have had a girlfriend. However I do understand that I need to be patient don’t think about it. When i talk to girls I am myself and not fake or try to be someone else.

ATM I am quitting porn for good. And go the gym regularly and try to have a bit more confidence. Am currently making progress I’ve lost a stone in 3 months there is still much to improve on weight but it’s time for a change and keep on improving myself and try not get jealous of other peoples relationships.
Original post by Anonymous
Hi guys 27 no girlfriend lately I been thinking and I don’t understand why u have bot have had a girlfriend. However I do understand that I need to be patient don’t think about it. When i talk to girls I am myself and not fake or try to be someone else.
ATM I am quitting porn for good. And go the gym regularly and try to have a bit more confidence. Am currently making progress I’ve lost a stone in 3 months there is still much to improve on weight but it’s time for a change and keep on improving myself and try not get jealous of other peoples relationships.

eww
Reply 2
Original post by sydneybm
eww

There's no need to be dismissive. He's working hard to improve himself and showing impressive self-control. His efforts could very well lead him to find a meaningful relationship.
Reply 3
Good work. Keep at it and you will hit success
Reply 4
Original post by logithon
There's no need to be dismissive. He's working hard to improve himself and showing impressive self-control. His efforts could very well lead him to find a meaningful relationship.

Thank you for the reply i am trying to improve myself and self confidence. It’s more the fact I am not getting any where in life and just stuck in a cycle I’ve sort of stopped chasing women because there is simply no point. I am trying just trying my best to ignore people relationships so I don’t get jealous or thinking when is that going to happen to me.

Even though comes in to mind back and fourth I ignore it and move on and I’m really trying to break addiction’s like weed and beer and porn all together I just get trapped in this cycle but I am more aware now porn is not real life when your intimate with a girl and I am fully committed now into quitting porn and trying quit weed and alcohol it just get difficult at times.
I think it’s great that you’re aware of the negativity of addictions AND you’re actively trying to quit so well done
Reply 6
Hey!

So I didn't get into my first relationship until my mid 20s. Many of my friends who are late 20s have not had a relationship yet, so it is not all that uncommon.

I think the worst thing you can do is actively try and look for a relationship. It never happens when it is forced or you try and search for it. It has to happen naturally.

Now saying that, you won't meet anyone if you aren't out socialising. You basically need to focus on building confidence, which it sounds like you are already. And just do things you enjoy. Like a sport, politics, any sort of hobby that involves socialising. You will meet like minded people and eventually someone will come your way!

Also don't be shy to try app dating. So many people get success from apps. Going on tinder/hinge dates can just be good fun and lead to new friendships.

Keep at it man!

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