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I ran into my year 9 teacher who I had a crush on and got scared

I ran into my old teacher with my mum yesterday and I got really scared and anxious.

Bit of back story I had a crush on him all through the school year and In year 9 I got him as a form tutor.

I got put at the front of the class and I used to do something rather inappropriate when ever I thought he was looking I would open my legs a bit and flash him my knickers. I did this through out the year.

When speaking to him with my mum he said he remembers me very fondly and gave me a wink and a little grin.

Since meeting him I’ve been very anxious and I don’t know how to get over it I mean the past is the past right?
Original post by Anonymous
I ran into my old teacher with my mum yesterday and I got really scared and anxious.
Bit of back story I had a crush on him all through the school year and In year 9 I got him as a form tutor.
I got put at the front of the class and I used to do something rather inappropriate when ever I thought he was looking I would open my legs a bit and flash him my knickers. I did this through out the year.
When speaking to him with my mum he said he remembers me very fondly and gave me a wink and a little grin.
Since meeting him I’ve been very anxious and I don’t know how to get over it I mean the past is the past right?

how old was this man?
damn you freaky 😭 r u sure he saw that stuff though
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Original post by aditya nair12344
how old was this man?


At the time I would of been about 14 he would of been about 38 I think? I can’t really remember
Original post by Anonymous
I ran into my old teacher with my mum yesterday and I got really scared and anxious.
Bit of back story I had a crush on him all through the school year and In year 9 I got him as a form tutor.
I got put at the front of the class and I used to do something rather inappropriate when ever I thought he was looking I would open my legs a bit and flash him my knickers. I did this through out the year.
When speaking to him with my mum he said he remembers me very fondly and gave me a wink and a little grin.
Since meeting him I’ve been very anxious and I don’t know how to get over it I mean the past is the past right?

Tbh this sounds like a fantasy.
I used to be the same OP I had a crush on a teacher at school but I never thought to flash anything, maybe because I was a tomboy.

Instead I did stuff to grab his attention like I would call him over to help and then say ‘it’s ok never mind’.
There must be a lot of emotionally needy children of both sexes ,given the vast number of divorced families and missing parents, and that is often were the craving for male or female attention comes from. That is why teachers have to be emotionally mature enough to not cross the line. Nothing wrong with emotional support but nothing more.
Reply 7
Original post by Anonymous
I ran into my old teacher with my mum yesterday and I got really scared and anxious.
Bit of back story I had a crush on him all through the school year and In year 9 I got him as a form tutor.
I got put at the front of the class and I used to do something rather inappropriate when ever I thought he was looking I would open my legs a bit and flash him my knickers. I did this through out the year.
When speaking to him with my mum he said he remembers me very fondly and gave me a wink and a little grin.
Since meeting him I’ve been very anxious and I don’t know how to get over it I mean the past is the past right?

"I would open my legs and flash my knickers".
Gosh, you are classy. I dread to think what you're like now.
Original post by piggys
"I would open my legs and flash my knickers".
Gosh, you are classy. I dread to think what you're like now.

Look come on ,she is young and lots of young ladies do that and more. Doesn't mean they are not classy . Look up "Profumo Scandal" would you call them classy ? I would.
Original post by Anonymous
ur disgusting lol

LOL
Reply 11
Original post by Anonymous
Look come on ,she is young and lots of young ladies do that and more. Doesn't mean they are not classy . Look up "Profumo Scandal" would you call them classy ? I would.

No I would not call prostitutes like Christine Keeler 'classy'. Would you?
Original post by piggys
No I would not call prostitutes like Christine Keeler 'classy'. Would you?

Yes.
Reply 13
Original post by Anonymous
Yes.

ok well good luck when you next have to pay for it. 😆
Original post by piggys
ok well good luck when you next have to pay for it. 😆

I dont.lol
Original post by Anonymous
I ran into my old teacher with my mum yesterday and I got really scared and anxious.
Bit of back story I had a crush on him all through the school year and In year 9 I got him as a form tutor.
I got put at the front of the class and I used to do something rather inappropriate when ever I thought he was looking I would open my legs a bit and flash him my knickers. I did this through out the year.
When speaking to him with my mum he said he remembers me very fondly and gave me a wink and a little grin.
Since meeting him I’ve been very anxious and I don’t know how to get over it I mean the past is the past right?

Seeing as many on this thread have nothing constructive to say I shall add this

1.

Having a crush on a teacher isn't normal but its definitely not uncommon: both sexes tend to look up to teachers and feelings of adoration and respect lead students to cross the line, as you have done in this case

2.

Regarding you flashing to him, judging by what you have said, he never made any inappropriate moves towards you (correct me if I'm wrong). I therefore think it's safe to assume even if he did notice you flashing to him..he did not overstep his boundaries and behaved the way a teacher should act.

3.

As you are no longer in year 9, I think it's best to move on and learn from this situation. Teachers have a duty of care to all their students, and must not be seen entertaining any actions by students to gain their attention in a negative way.

Original post by halfharry
Seeing as many on this thread have nothing constructive to say I shall add this

1.

Having a crush on a teacher isn't normal but its definitely not uncommon: both sexes tend to look up to teachers and feelings of adoration and respect lead students to cross the line, as you have done in this case

2.

Regarding you flashing to him, judging by what you have said, he never made any inappropriate moves towards you (correct me if I'm wrong). I therefore think it's safe to assume even if he did notice you flashing to him..he did not overstep his boundaries and behaved the way a teacher should act.

3.

As you are no longer in year 9, I think it's best to move on and learn from this situation. Teachers have a duty of care to all their students, and must not be seen entertaining any actions by students to gain their attention in a negative way.


and what pray tell is "not constructive about my post below ??
There must be a lot of emotionally needy children of both sexes ,given the vast number of divorced families and missing parents, and that is often were the craving for male or female attention comes from. That is why teachers have to be emotionally mature enough to not cross the line. Nothing wrong with emotional support but nothing more.
Original post by Anonymous
and what pray tell is "not constructive about my post below ??
There must be a lot of emotionally needy children of both sexes ,given the vast number of divorced families and missing parents, and that is often were the craving for male or female attention comes from. That is why teachers have to be emotionally mature enough to not cross the line. Nothing wrong with emotional support but nothing more.

I do recall using the determiner "most" and not "all".
Your advice was fine💙

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